"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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You are actually 4th, but under 400 posts away from 3rd and I don't recognize the user so he doesn't post much anymore I guess...you should pass him in no time :rofl:
Oh, I definitely have enough mindless babble to cover 400 posts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I feel like I saw Anti-Dump post recently. And Anti-Dump's machine is from the days of Pook. The very early 2000s
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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I don't recommend marriage even as a man grows older. For a forum full of men it is astounding how no one seems to retain knowledge of the past and present. As men, please understand the statistics ARE against you.

Your children and your finances will be at the mercy of an emotional, unstable, unpredictable, illogical, immature, volatile creature.

...but I guess most of you will feel like you're special. Your lovely wife could never grow old, fat and lazy; she could never destroy your happy perfect marriage and she most certainly would never take advantage of you in court.

 

zekko

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Your children and your finances will be at the mercy of an emotional, unstable, unpredictable, illogical, immature, volatile creature.
If you're going to have kids, you put yourself in pretty much the same situation.
The whole thing makes me sad. I grew up in an intact family, my parents never got divorced. I feel so lucky, I can't imagine growing up in a better environment. I hate to see what's become of the culture.
 
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