"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who is the best pickup artist alive?

pokerplaya26

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I'd like to have your opinion on who the best pickup artist alive today is? Not guys who just "hunt" at nightclubs and bars. And not guys who need wingmen to score a chick. But, the best PUA in any situation or place. I've read Neil strauss, Mystery, Don Diabel, Tony Clink, Roy Valentine, Michael Pilinski, Ron louis and David Copeland...All these guys are good/great...but I wouldn't say any of them are the best. It seems they mostly rely on "Negs", a wing man, bars and nightclub pickups, gimicks to get a girl to come talk to you. It works, but doesn't really seem natural to me.
So, in your opinion(even if it's someone I mentioned), who would you say is the best PUA? The living Don Juan or Cassinova.

Thank you for your input.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To have a Best you would have to agree that there is a way to win. In this world there is no win or lose only try and learn. So the best would have to be the one that has tried the most and learned the most.

:Who knows who that is? Not me.

I vote for anybody who has got out there and tried. No matter the outcome.
 

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I like Zeroc's reply. Gotta give respect to the guys who go out and try. I feel like the worst pickup artist ever because I haven't moved out of my comfort zone yet. I am feeling very annoyed inside my self-imposed walls now. I'ma need to get out there and try stuff, dragging my feet over it.
 

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I am...not the best pickup artist alive.

But I will be.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You guys need to do your research.

SKIP2mylou is the best pickup artist alive.

Whatever happened to him anyways?

He probably outgrew this website because u guys couldnt handle the truth.. so you live in the matrix.

But yah thats a fact.
 

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"I am."

And we should all have that same answer. Believe it and you'll achieve it, or some such nonsense, right?
 

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Thanks for the reply/replies

Loved that quote from Hedberg. I told a few girls that one, and they would glare at me like I was a f'n pig. lol. I love that guy, he was my favorite comedian.
 
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pokerplaya26 said:
I'd like to have your opinion on who the best pickup artist alive today is?
The best PUA is the one who gets the most chickadees - most likely an athlete or a famed multi-millionaire!!
 

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does it even matter? this isn't a sport. It's securing a part of your life (women)


the only thing that matters is not how many women you sleep with, how many numbers you get, just knowing you can when you want to is the key.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've read Neil strauss, Mystery, Don Diabel, Tony Clink, Roy Valentine, Michael Pilinski, Ron louis and David Copeland..

Don't all these guys sell BOOKS ? It's all bull****

How can any of this stuff be documented ? Yeah I picked up 20 girls last week alone and this is what I did blah, blah, blah

Now go purchase my book for $29.99 LOL

Guys who pick up Ask out a lot of girls. It's a numbers game. End of story

You wanna meet a girl ? grow some balls and ask girls out.

amazing eh ? LOL
 

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I vote for the man who has got out there and tried, kept trying, and is currently still trying. I vote for the man who never stops evolving, changing, and enhancing himself.

I think my own personal vision of the archetypal Don Juan would be a man without social fear, but enough street knowledge to know when to curb himself. He would look good and maintain his physical, emotional, and mental health routinely. He owns himself in every way. He's detached from the obligations of the corporate rat race and free from bureaucratic hierarchy and the miles of red tape that obstruct what once was "the american dream".

He probably studies social psychology and evolutionary biology in his free time. He probably has internalized many innate patterns of the human psyche as to elicit favorable responses from his subjects at whim. He also probably has a thorough understanding of body language. He is aware of his facial movements and keeps them under control: congruent with the emotion he wants to elicit.

He also spends a lot of time at places where people congregate under some expectations of meeting people. Think parks, instead of supermarkets.

I could go on and on. I think my point is that this super don juan doesn't necessarily exist in real life but we all sort of know who he is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is no best of anything.

Nuff' said.

There is no worst of anything either.

There is just a lot of ****ty things and some stuff that is better than the ****ty.
 

Ever onward

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Credos said:
Who the hell is that?

Victor malvado is good
You shouldn't let your ignorance show.

David Deangelo learned everything he knows at the feet of Brent and the infamous Rick H.
 

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The best pick-up artist is the one who has fun!
 

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The best PUA is whoever:

- Found his ideal girl,
- He madly fell in love with her and she with him,
- Had children,
- Are living happily as a family in good health, financially secure...
- And still having lots of spontanous, loving, kinky sex together.

Let's see what the purist DJs make of that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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