"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who is the best pickup artist alive?

pokerplaya26

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I'd like to have your opinion on who the best pickup artist alive today is? Not guys who just "hunt" at nightclubs and bars. And not guys who need wingmen to score a chick. But, the best PUA in any situation or place. I've read Neil strauss, Mystery, Don Diabel, Tony Clink, Roy Valentine, Michael Pilinski, Ron louis and David Copeland...All these guys are good/great...but I wouldn't say any of them are the best. It seems they mostly rely on "Negs", a wing man, bars and nightclub pickups, gimicks to get a girl to come talk to you. It works, but doesn't really seem natural to me.
So, in your opinion(even if it's someone I mentioned), who would you say is the best PUA? The living Don Juan or Cassinova.

Thank you for your input.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To have a Best you would have to agree that there is a way to win. In this world there is no win or lose only try and learn. So the best would have to be the one that has tried the most and learned the most.

:Who knows who that is? Not me.

I vote for anybody who has got out there and tried. No matter the outcome.
 

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I like Zeroc's reply. Gotta give respect to the guys who go out and try. I feel like the worst pickup artist ever because I haven't moved out of my comfort zone yet. I am feeling very annoyed inside my self-imposed walls now. I'ma need to get out there and try stuff, dragging my feet over it.
 

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I am...not the best pickup artist alive.

But I will be.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You guys need to do your research.

SKIP2mylou is the best pickup artist alive.

Whatever happened to him anyways?

He probably outgrew this website because u guys couldnt handle the truth.. so you live in the matrix.

But yah thats a fact.
 

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"I am."

And we should all have that same answer. Believe it and you'll achieve it, or some such nonsense, right?
 

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Thanks for the reply/replies

Loved that quote from Hedberg. I told a few girls that one, and they would glare at me like I was a f'n pig. lol. I love that guy, he was my favorite comedian.
 
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pokerplaya26 said:
I'd like to have your opinion on who the best pickup artist alive today is?
The best PUA is the one who gets the most chickadees - most likely an athlete or a famed multi-millionaire!!
 

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does it even matter? this isn't a sport. It's securing a part of your life (women)


the only thing that matters is not how many women you sleep with, how many numbers you get, just knowing you can when you want to is the key.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've read Neil strauss, Mystery, Don Diabel, Tony Clink, Roy Valentine, Michael Pilinski, Ron louis and David Copeland..

Don't all these guys sell BOOKS ? It's all bull****

How can any of this stuff be documented ? Yeah I picked up 20 girls last week alone and this is what I did blah, blah, blah

Now go purchase my book for $29.99 LOL

Guys who pick up Ask out a lot of girls. It's a numbers game. End of story

You wanna meet a girl ? grow some balls and ask girls out.

amazing eh ? LOL
 

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I vote for the man who has got out there and tried, kept trying, and is currently still trying. I vote for the man who never stops evolving, changing, and enhancing himself.

I think my own personal vision of the archetypal Don Juan would be a man without social fear, but enough street knowledge to know when to curb himself. He would look good and maintain his physical, emotional, and mental health routinely. He owns himself in every way. He's detached from the obligations of the corporate rat race and free from bureaucratic hierarchy and the miles of red tape that obstruct what once was "the american dream".

He probably studies social psychology and evolutionary biology in his free time. He probably has internalized many innate patterns of the human psyche as to elicit favorable responses from his subjects at whim. He also probably has a thorough understanding of body language. He is aware of his facial movements and keeps them under control: congruent with the emotion he wants to elicit.

He also spends a lot of time at places where people congregate under some expectations of meeting people. Think parks, instead of supermarkets.

I could go on and on. I think my point is that this super don juan doesn't necessarily exist in real life but we all sort of know who he is.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is no best of anything.

Nuff' said.

There is no worst of anything either.

There is just a lot of ****ty things and some stuff that is better than the ****ty.
 

Ever onward

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Credos said:
Who the hell is that?

Victor malvado is good
You shouldn't let your ignorance show.

David Deangelo learned everything he knows at the feet of Brent and the infamous Rick H.
 

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The best pick-up artist is the one who has fun!
 

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The best PUA is whoever:

- Found his ideal girl,
- He madly fell in love with her and she with him,
- Had children,
- Are living happily as a family in good health, financially secure...
- And still having lots of spontanous, loving, kinky sex together.

Let's see what the purist DJs make of that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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