Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Who is more attractive? Person A or Person B?

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Person A, an average looking guy, is happy, thinks he looks like Brad Pitt and enjoys every conversation with everyone. He is funny, has goals in life and takes action to reach them in order to have a successful life.

Person B is a very good looking man who has only looks going for him.

Question: Is Person A more attractive to a woman than Person B just because of his mindset?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on the woman and what she's looking for in a guy. I'd say most would go with guy A, since you can do pretty much anything except bore a woman. If you bore her, you're gone.
 

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DiegoSantori said:
Person A, an average looking guy, is happy, thinks he looks like Brad Pitt and enjoys every conversation with everyone. He is funny, has goals in life and takes action to reach them in order to have a successful life.

Person B is a very good looking man who has only looks going for him.

Question: Is Person A more attractive to a woman than Person B just because of his mindset?
Huh? What??? Wtf?

A loaded question.

women love intelligence. the lack of intelligence displayed in OPs question makes me want to point out what your questions lack - intelligence.

hell look at stephen hawking.. if that guy can get laid you have no excuse. or intelligence.
 

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Person B will get a lot of (low quality) women but loose them fairly quickly due to lack of confidence etc..

Person A won't get as much women but will benefit heavily in the long run by avoiding low quality women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Frayzer said:
Person B will get a lot of (low quality) women but loose them fairly quickly due to lack of confidence etc..

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Why do you assume Person B has lack of confidence? And that he gets low quality women?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Why do you assume Person B has lack of confidence? And that he gets low quality women?
I would assume because of this:
Person B is a very good looking man who has only looks going for him.
 

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Frayzer said:
Person B will get a lot of (low quality) women but loose them fairly quickly due to lack of confidence etc..

Person A won't get as much women but will benefit heavily in the long run by avoiding low quality women.
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
Person C is better. Good looking and good at sex. Yesterday I stole a piece of chocolate from the kitchen but it spilled on the floor. I had to pay for the cake, the broken plate and a $50 fee for stealing. It sucks. It's so unfair.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
Person C is better. Good looking and good at sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I would assume because of this:


A man who only has looks to go on can be confident or not confident. Why are you assuming he lacks confidence?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
A man who only has looks to go on can be confident or not confident. Why are you assuming he lacks confidence?
Huh?

ONLY Looks. He didn't say looks and confidence.

Confidence is huge.
 

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Person A because of his conversation skills.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Huh?

ONLY Looks. He didn't say looks and confidence.

Confidence is huge.
Ok. Looks but no personality, education, confidence, dress sense, sense of humour etc.

Of course person A wins. Person B would be a mannequin.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
Agreed.

Which is why some of my friends who have height, and good genes in general, get a lot of women yet suffer tremendously when it comes to oneitis and long term relationships.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see jacked bald headed guys who have nothing going on from them and have a felony conviction who are banging hot women. Goals mean nothing. Also you don't need to have this happy bubbly personality. You just need to be masculine and dominant.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
women love intelligence. the lack of intelligence displayed in OPs question makes me want to point out what your questions lack - intelligence.

hell look at stephen hawking.. if that guy can get laid you have no excuse. or intelligence.
I always thought Stephen Hawking got laid because of his confidence :rolleyes:

Stephen Hawking rolls into a bar.
"Hey, are those fingernails real or fake? Fake? Oh. Well, they're still nice, I guess. How about buying me a drink?".

Rolls up to other lasses:
"Hey, did you see those two girls fighting outside?"

"Settle a bet for me. Who do you think cheats more, men or women?
I only have a moment to talk, I have to get back to my friends..."
 
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