"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who is more attractive? Person A or Person B?

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Person A, an average looking guy, is happy, thinks he looks like Brad Pitt and enjoys every conversation with everyone. He is funny, has goals in life and takes action to reach them in order to have a successful life.

Person B is a very good looking man who has only looks going for him.

Question: Is Person A more attractive to a woman than Person B just because of his mindset?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Depends on the woman and what she's looking for in a guy. I'd say most would go with guy A, since you can do pretty much anything except bore a woman. If you bore her, you're gone.
 

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DiegoSantori said:
Person A, an average looking guy, is happy, thinks he looks like Brad Pitt and enjoys every conversation with everyone. He is funny, has goals in life and takes action to reach them in order to have a successful life.

Person B is a very good looking man who has only looks going for him.

Question: Is Person A more attractive to a woman than Person B just because of his mindset?
Huh? What??? Wtf?

A loaded question.

women love intelligence. the lack of intelligence displayed in OPs question makes me want to point out what your questions lack - intelligence.

hell look at stephen hawking.. if that guy can get laid you have no excuse. or intelligence.
 

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Person B will get a lot of (low quality) women but loose them fairly quickly due to lack of confidence etc..

Person A won't get as much women but will benefit heavily in the long run by avoiding low quality women.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Frayzer said:
Person B will get a lot of (low quality) women but loose them fairly quickly due to lack of confidence etc..

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Why do you assume Person B has lack of confidence? And that he gets low quality women?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
Why do you assume Person B has lack of confidence? And that he gets low quality women?
I would assume because of this:
Person B is a very good looking man who has only looks going for him.
 

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Frayzer said:
Person B will get a lot of (low quality) women but loose them fairly quickly due to lack of confidence etc..

Person A won't get as much women but will benefit heavily in the long run by avoiding low quality women.
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
Person C is better. Good looking and good at sex. Yesterday I stole a piece of chocolate from the kitchen but it spilled on the floor. I had to pay for the cake, the broken plate and a $50 fee for stealing. It sucks. It's so unfair.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
Person C is better. Good looking and good at sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I would assume because of this:


A man who only has looks to go on can be confident or not confident. Why are you assuming he lacks confidence?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
A man who only has looks to go on can be confident or not confident. Why are you assuming he lacks confidence?
Huh?

ONLY Looks. He didn't say looks and confidence.

Confidence is huge.
 

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Person A because of his conversation skills.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Huh?

ONLY Looks. He didn't say looks and confidence.

Confidence is huge.
Ok. Looks but no personality, education, confidence, dress sense, sense of humour etc.

Of course person A wins. Person B would be a mannequin.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I agree in your assessment about quality, and long run. However, I think Person A will trump Person B in the short term as well.
Agreed.

Which is why some of my friends who have height, and good genes in general, get a lot of women yet suffer tremendously when it comes to oneitis and long term relationships.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I see jacked bald headed guys who have nothing going on from them and have a felony conviction who are banging hot women. Goals mean nothing. Also you don't need to have this happy bubbly personality. You just need to be masculine and dominant.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
women love intelligence. the lack of intelligence displayed in OPs question makes me want to point out what your questions lack - intelligence.

hell look at stephen hawking.. if that guy can get laid you have no excuse. or intelligence.
I always thought Stephen Hawking got laid because of his confidence :rolleyes:

Stephen Hawking rolls into a bar.
"Hey, are those fingernails real or fake? Fake? Oh. Well, they're still nice, I guess. How about buying me a drink?".

Rolls up to other lasses:
"Hey, did you see those two girls fighting outside?"

"Settle a bet for me. Who do you think cheats more, men or women?
I only have a moment to talk, I have to get back to my friends..."
 
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