"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who is chasing who issue

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I met a girl whilst staying at a friends in a different city. She came to see me a few weeks ago and we text every now and again. She wants me to come to her city...

Even though she's been here previously and it was fun, does me going there make me seem less desirable, ie, Should I hold out for her to come here again and if she doesn't then oh well, because me going there wouldn't have sent the right message anyway and she'd lose interest, plus i only wanna deal with interested chicks and this is a good way to gauge interest.

I was thinking of just seeing her when I go to see my friends again, that way Im not really going there to see her, which would actually be true, i'm not that bothered about this one. But i'd prefer it if I could get her to come here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She invited you, so go lol unless you have other **** or don't want to go lol.
 
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You wouldn't be bothering with the long-distance püssy if you had some locally.

Go hit it if that's all you got, but I wouldn't bother if there were other options. Finding other options would be time better spent than paying for the travel with time and money. If you have to pay for vagina, than it is what it is and you might as well rent a hooker.

Perhaps multi-tasking the trip to include other business, but to travel purely for püssy? Wasteful.
 
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You're better off holding off till you go see your friends again but don't stop responding to her text and continue to pull for her to come to your place.

If she does you know she has high interest level and almost guarantees you pvssy rather than you going there solely for her, thats some ''i don't have anything else to do with my time'' type of sheet especially if you haven't fvckd her yet.
 
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She should come to you because it is then on your turf and you control what is going to happen. Rather then being in an unfamiliar place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stevo said:
You're better off holding off till you go see your friends again but don't stop responding to her text and continue to pull for her to come to your place.

If she does you know she has high interest level and almost guarantees you pvssy rather than you going there solely for her, thats some ''i don't have anything else to do with my time'' type of sheet especially if you haven't fvckd her yet.
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Yea this was my plan. Only I didnt wna text too much at end up friend-zoned but maybe she's taken badly to be not responding for a while, I'll wait and see if she replies and then continue to press for her to come here.

DO you have to get them a little more hooked before you go all aloof then?
 
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