"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I met a girl whilst staying at a friends in a different city. She came to see me a few weeks ago and we text every now and again. She wants me to come to her city...

Even though she's been here previously and it was fun, does me going there make me seem less desirable, ie, Should I hold out for her to come here again and if she doesn't then oh well, because me going there wouldn't have sent the right message anyway and she'd lose interest, plus i only wanna deal with interested chicks and this is a good way to gauge interest.

I was thinking of just seeing her when I go to see my friends again, that way Im not really going there to see her, which would actually be true, i'm not that bothered about this one. But i'd prefer it if I could get her to come here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She invited you, so go lol unless you have other **** or don't want to go lol.
 
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You wouldn't be bothering with the long-distance püssy if you had some locally.

Go hit it if that's all you got, but I wouldn't bother if there were other options. Finding other options would be time better spent than paying for the travel with time and money. If you have to pay for vagina, than it is what it is and you might as well rent a hooker.

Perhaps multi-tasking the trip to include other business, but to travel purely for püssy? Wasteful.
 
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You're better off holding off till you go see your friends again but don't stop responding to her text and continue to pull for her to come to your place.

If she does you know she has high interest level and almost guarantees you pvssy rather than you going there solely for her, thats some ''i don't have anything else to do with my time'' type of sheet especially if you haven't fvckd her yet.
 
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She should come to you because it is then on your turf and you control what is going to happen. Rather then being in an unfamiliar place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stevo said:
You're better off holding off till you go see your friends again but don't stop responding to her text and continue to pull for her to come to your place.

If she does you know she has high interest level and almost guarantees you pvssy rather than you going there solely for her, thats some ''i don't have anything else to do with my time'' type of sheet especially if you haven't fvckd her yet.
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Yea this was my plan. Only I didnt wna text too much at end up friend-zoned but maybe she's taken badly to be not responding for a while, I'll wait and see if she replies and then continue to press for her to come here.

DO you have to get them a little more hooked before you go all aloof then?
 
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