As a Hispanic male, I'm really interested in getting dating advice from a guy with a Hispanic background that can speak to issues, or topics from a Hispanic point of view. When i heard the name Carlos Xuma, a Mexican sounding name, I thought this is my man. I visited his website and heard the Motha Interview. I wasn't too impressed. He didn't have a Hispanic accent or anything and the advice he gave sounded like it was torn out of the pages of DYD. I've been unable to unearth any personal info on him. Does anybody know who he is? Whether he's actually successful w/women? How he got to be a dating expert/guru?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Who is Carlos Xuma? Really.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I've yet to come across a picture of the guy. However I have his audio lectures and borth of his e-books and I have to say that his is the best written and insightful regarding the plight of modern man.
" Supreme self confidence and his Alpha male" book clarify and cut through the excuses and BS of the inner wussbag.
If you know where to look you can download the lectures. Good stuff.
" Supreme self confidence and his Alpha male" book clarify and cut through the excuses and BS of the inner wussbag.
If you know where to look you can download the lectures. Good stuff.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
there is a pic of him on that PUA photos album that was posted in "anything else" a couple weeks back.
i didn't really like his book. It was just nothing new, especially if you've read the bible and PUA archives.
i didn't really like his book. It was just nothing new, especially if you've read the bible and PUA archives.
brucevangeorge
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He's just some skinny twerp that gives commonsense advice.