As a Hispanic male, I'm really interested in getting dating advice from a guy with a Hispanic background that can speak to issues, or topics from a Hispanic point of view. When i heard the name Carlos Xuma, a Mexican sounding name, I thought this is my man. I visited his website and heard the Motha Interview. I wasn't too impressed. He didn't have a Hispanic accent or anything and the advice he gave sounded like it was torn out of the pages of DYD. I've been unable to unearth any personal info on him. Does anybody know who he is? Whether he's actually successful w/women? How he got to be a dating expert/guru?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Who is Carlos Xuma? Really.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KarmaSutra
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I've yet to come across a picture of the guy. However I have his audio lectures and borth of his e-books and I have to say that his is the best written and insightful regarding the plight of modern man.
" Supreme self confidence and his Alpha male" book clarify and cut through the excuses and BS of the inner wussbag.
If you know where to look you can download the lectures. Good stuff.
" Supreme self confidence and his Alpha male" book clarify and cut through the excuses and BS of the inner wussbag.
If you know where to look you can download the lectures. Good stuff.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
there is a pic of him on that PUA photos album that was posted in "anything else" a couple weeks back.
i didn't really like his book. It was just nothing new, especially if you've read the bible and PUA archives.
i didn't really like his book. It was just nothing new, especially if you've read the bible and PUA archives.
brucevangeorge
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He's just some skinny twerp that gives commonsense advice.