As a Hispanic male, I'm really interested in getting dating advice from a guy with a Hispanic background that can speak to issues, or topics from a Hispanic point of view. When i heard the name Carlos Xuma, a Mexican sounding name, I thought this is my man. I visited his website and heard the Motha Interview. I wasn't too impressed. He didn't have a Hispanic accent or anything and the advice he gave sounded like it was torn out of the pages of DYD. I've been unable to unearth any personal info on him. Does anybody know who he is? Whether he's actually successful w/women? How he got to be a dating expert/guru?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Who is Carlos Xuma? Really.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
KarmaSutra
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I've yet to come across a picture of the guy. However I have his audio lectures and borth of his e-books and I have to say that his is the best written and insightful regarding the plight of modern man.
" Supreme self confidence and his Alpha male" book clarify and cut through the excuses and BS of the inner wussbag.
If you know where to look you can download the lectures. Good stuff.
" Supreme self confidence and his Alpha male" book clarify and cut through the excuses and BS of the inner wussbag.
If you know where to look you can download the lectures. Good stuff.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
there is a pic of him on that PUA photos album that was posted in "anything else" a couple weeks back.
i didn't really like his book. It was just nothing new, especially if you've read the bible and PUA archives.
i didn't really like his book. It was just nothing new, especially if you've read the bible and PUA archives.
brucevangeorge
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He's just some skinny twerp that gives commonsense advice.