Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Almost feels like a catch 22 because since women are usually the passive sex, we can't really hold our breath for thatPlayHer Man said:Text her the time you want to meet.
Usually I set up a plan via text either the night of the date or a few days before. So if I texted her on Tuesday for a Thursday date... once Thursday comes I would send something like:
ME: 8:00?
If I'm making the plans the night of the date:
ME: Want to grab a drink after work tonight?
I always plan first dates/meetings at the bar next to my apartment. This way I can walk there when she arrives. I always send a "running late" text at the time of the date. If she isn't there yet.. I tell her to text me when she is. If she flakes.. I never got off my ass anyway.
Also, if she's DTF.. my place is a 5 minute walk.
The less effort you put into dating the more high value women will believe you are. :crackup:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
avid..How about you?leasure to meet you Trinao you like Bowlingont worry you will be training with a proIm free later this weekAs long as you let me know ahead of time we are goodYou made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
that makes sense, if a woman is truly interested in you, she will definetley find and make a way in order to make her life flexible enough in order to see youHarry Wilmington said:
Women love attention, validation and power over men. Simple as that. A woman doesn't have to want to f*ck you in order to communicate with you. Women want relationships with beta fags they can exploit just as much as they want alpha c0cks pounding their ****s.Lostsoul85 said:
I agree and it's true. I've had girls that I don't like, that have been dying for a chance to be with me. This one even said she will be an option if the one doesn't work out... and this is only because I don't care about dating them and I'm guessing it shows value. So I am for this piece of advice, as it does work.PlayHer Man said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.