"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, well its coming down to the wire. Everyone is starting to get prom dates! So I've been thinkin about who I want to take with me to prom. I came up with the conclusion that I didn't want to take anyone from my school, however this girl frmo a neiboring town, I did want to take.

Now this is where the problem lays. I don't see her very often. Usually once a month we hang out. Maybe 2. However we do have a lot of fun together, we just don't get to hang out as much. Now this is where my problem lays. Is it weird for me to ask a girl I hardly see to prom? And also, how can I go about doing this in a way that won't make it seem like out of the blue/awkward?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hardly see the girl I'm taking. We see each othe roften enough though. I'd say go for it.

It almost works out for the better. If oyu don't see them taht much, then you can't get into some crappy fight and hate each other, but be stuck going to prom together (happened last year, we danced with each other once that night).
 
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its gonna be out of the blue pretty much no matter what u do. but who says thats so bad? remember: u just gotta do it.
 
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Originally posted by immrtlwun
I hardly see the girl I'm taking. We see each othe roften enough though. I'd say go for it.

It almost works out for the better. If oyu don't see them taht much, then you can't get into some crappy fight and hate each other, but be stuck going to prom together (happened last year, we danced with each other once that night).
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Told you not to invite your mom last year.:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your a funny one there wavejams. I commend you on your originality.
 
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