“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Who I want for prom...READ

toddC

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 28, 2005
Messages
421
Reaction score
0
Okay, well its coming down to the wire. Everyone is starting to get prom dates! So I've been thinkin about who I want to take with me to prom. I came up with the conclusion that I didn't want to take anyone from my school, however this girl frmo a neiboring town, I did want to take.

Now this is where the problem lays. I don't see her very often. Usually once a month we hang out. Maybe 2. However we do have a lot of fun together, we just don't get to hang out as much. Now this is where my problem lays. Is it weird for me to ask a girl I hardly see to prom? And also, how can I go about doing this in a way that won't make it seem like out of the blue/awkward?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

immrtlwun

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
289
Reaction score
0
I hardly see the girl I'm taking. We see each othe roften enough though. I'd say go for it.

It almost works out for the better. If oyu don't see them taht much, then you can't get into some crappy fight and hate each other, but be stuck going to prom together (happened last year, we danced with each other once that night).
 

Ace of Flames

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
1,500
Reaction score
16
Location
Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
its gonna be out of the blue pretty much no matter what u do. but who says thats so bad? remember: u just gotta do it.
 

wavejams007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
876
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
jacksonville, FL
Originally posted by immrtlwun
I hardly see the girl I'm taking. We see each othe roften enough though. I'd say go for it.

It almost works out for the better. If oyu don't see them taht much, then you can't get into some crappy fight and hate each other, but be stuck going to prom together (happened last year, we danced with each other once that night).
Told you not to invite your mom last year.:p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

immrtlwun

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
289
Reaction score
0
Your a funny one there wavejams. I commend you on your originality.
 
Top