"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay, well its coming down to the wire. Everyone is starting to get prom dates! So I've been thinkin about who I want to take with me to prom. I came up with the conclusion that I didn't want to take anyone from my school, however this girl frmo a neiboring town, I did want to take.

Now this is where the problem lays. I don't see her very often. Usually once a month we hang out. Maybe 2. However we do have a lot of fun together, we just don't get to hang out as much. Now this is where my problem lays. Is it weird for me to ask a girl I hardly see to prom? And also, how can I go about doing this in a way that won't make it seem like out of the blue/awkward?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I hardly see the girl I'm taking. We see each othe roften enough though. I'd say go for it.

It almost works out for the better. If oyu don't see them taht much, then you can't get into some crappy fight and hate each other, but be stuck going to prom together (happened last year, we danced with each other once that night).
 
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its gonna be out of the blue pretty much no matter what u do. but who says thats so bad? remember: u just gotta do it.
 
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Originally posted by immrtlwun
I hardly see the girl I'm taking. We see each othe roften enough though. I'd say go for it.

It almost works out for the better. If oyu don't see them taht much, then you can't get into some crappy fight and hate each other, but be stuck going to prom together (happened last year, we danced with each other once that night).
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Told you not to invite your mom last year.:p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your a funny one there wavejams. I commend you on your originality.
 
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