I'm looking for real opinions. Not fairy tale answers such as "to make your pee pee larger" or "to attract fortune and fame and girls and bananas and turkey and toe nails". I've been experimenting with them for some time now and I'm having difficulty distinguishing it's effects with the effects of everything else in my life. But one things are for sure: They do not alter behavior and they do not permanently alter feelings. But have they effected my attitude? The way I see things? F!@#&* I'm confused. F@#&* S!@&*# Crap I spend about an hour a day on affirmations and if what I think (barely) they are doing they are not doing then there goes several hundred hours of my time!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Who here knows the purpose of affirmations?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I've only discovered about affirmations from the book "How to be an Alpha Male" by John Alexander two weeks ago and I've started doing them recently. I've noticed slight improvements to my personality and game. Although nothing significant and groundbreaking, the fact that it's progressively helping me mold out my attitude has been encouraging. The key is commitment and the willingness to believe in your own words.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I always thought affirmations were a joke, but that is only my opinion, and I can't disparage what works for other guys. They are not for me, though.
Mike32ct
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Affirmations get into your subconscious mind and help brainwash you in a positive way. But they compete with your regular thoughts. You must do affirmations AND make sure your thinking is consistent with what you are trying to affirm. Let's say you affirmed 5 times today "I'm extremely confident around women.". Then later on that day you got rejected and thought to yourself 6 times "I'm a nervous loser around women.". Those negative thoughts would cancel out any benefit the affirmations gave you. That's why it's so hard to break out of negativity.
As for that The Secret or Law of Attraction stuff, I think it's bs. Affirming "I have a meatball grinder" is not going to make one appear on my front porch. I still need to call for takeout before one gets delivered LOL.
As for that The Secret or Law of Attraction stuff, I think it's bs. Affirming "I have a meatball grinder" is not going to make one appear on my front porch. I still need to call for takeout before one gets delivered LOL.
RandallLambert
Don Juan
Affirmations are useful, however AFFORmations are a hundred times more powerful. Instead of saying "I am excellent with women" you say "Why am I so excellent with women." Even if you're not, your brain looks for answers why this is the case, which occupies your subconscious, instead of it looking for reasons to reject the positive affirmation statement.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.