Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Who here is an actual DJ? Of the spinning records variety?

Deep Dish

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I have put together a nice little demo mix and am looking for some honest opinions. It's just a shy under one hour long and is full of progressive house with some electro and tech house tossed in. It starts off slow and dark and builds to energetic and positive. It's quite a nifty journey.

Since finding websites which host large files for free is hard to find, I found a place called dropload.com which is basically a PO box of the Internet. For anyone who would be interested, message me your e-mail address so you can be notified where to pick it up, just so long as you pick it up within seven days.

Here is the tracklist:

"Dangerous" by Land Shark
OM Records

"Body Language" by Booka Shade
Get Physical Music

"Wasting Time" by Booka Shade
Get Physical Music

"Club Therapy feat. Daniel Diamond" by Peace Division
NRK

"Night Fever" by Soda Inc.
Plastic City

"Erotic City" by Supafly
Subliminal Records

"Outerlimits" by Mohawk (Trafik remix)
Baroque Limited Records

"Dancing Light" by Parallel Sound
Hope Recordings

"Santiago" by Shmuel Flash (Hernan Cattaneo & Martin Garcia mix)
Bedrock Records

"Knights of Columbus" by On Spec
Bedrock Records

"World Hold On Children Of The Sky" by Bob Sinclair (E-Smoove Dub)
Defected

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I always wondered if your screenname was related to the Deep Dish of trance fame. I guess now I know. :D

And if that's the same "Santiago" that I'm thinking of, good choice, it rocks. I don't recongnise the rest, not by name anyway.
 
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Hey,

I spin all types of electronic dance music, including tech house, techno and trance. I am working on a website right now to promote myself. This summer I had a steady club gig playing mostly hip hip and some house but I am looking to further my endeavor. I'll message you.
 

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Turbo..about the username. wouldnt you love to have a 502 big block..AND a turbo?
 

Deep Dish

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S1NN3R said:
I always wondered if your screenname was related to the Deep Dish of trance fame. I guess now I know. :D

And if that's the same "Santiago" that I'm thinking of, good choice, it rocks. I don't recongnise the rest, not by name anyway.
Oh it probably is. :D

I could give you a copy if you want.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im a DJ, but I play more hip hop and whatnot, and I tend to DJ parties, where theres less scratch, less trance, and your mixes and song choices are way more important. Lets just say i get good reviews though
 

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I've been a "college radio" DJ for the better part of the last 10 years. Mostly obscure stuff, mostly within the rock to trip-hop to indie to avant-garde realm, but I spin just about every genre you can think of. Sometimes I'll get in a punk mood, sometimes trip-hop/lounge, sometimes classic rock deep album cuts you don't hear on the radio, sometimes a bit of soul, sometimes a power-pop set, toss in some reggae, country, jazz, or hip-hop, whatever flows...
 
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