"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who here does "Internet Dating"??

white_hype

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I realised recently that tons of dudes here are hooking up with girls off the net. It also seemed like thye were getting pretty hot chicks and getting them realtively easy. I've never done it but I am interested. Now there is no chance of me using this as a subsitute for sarging in real life, but I thought helll if I can just mass email 40 girls a month and get 3 #'s and talk to them then that is already helping to improve my phone game not to mention giving the possibility of f closing even more hot girls and maybe even meeting some LTR quality girls. WIN WIN!

so please post:
sites you use
success rates (how many emails you send out? responses you get? #'s you get? dates? F closes? etc)
your strategy (do you just mass email or what?)
your generic email you send the girls (assuming u do this)
pics of the girls you have met off the net (optional lol)

thx!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sargeholic

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Seriously, there are a lot of threads on this. DAFS.

That being said, my last LTR (solid 8) came from online and I laid like 4 chicks this summer from Match. Its ok, just dont make it your only game.

If you wanna practice phone game, seriously, spam like 100 emails to match chicks with your phone number and a few will call you. Its like cold sarging from there, works good sometimes.
 

DJ4Real

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I don't go online to actively meet women. But, if I happen to catch one that's interesting, I might try to get something going.
 

jhs

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agreed. the ratio to hot girls in the real world vs. hot girls online make active online dating pointless. think of a person who goes to a temp agency to find a job vs. a person who gets proper training to find a job. the temp will get assignment after assignment until one works out.

hopefully.

the other guy however.. initially he will spend some time building himself up, but once he gets what he wants.. he'll decide if it meets his needs... and if it doesn't, he'll move on.

so in other words, coming up on some extra cash doing **** on the side is an awesome way to supplement your income. dont expect it to pay the bills though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum, read the myriad of threads, learn how to do it from guys that can do it successfully.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Cannon_96
Internet dating? Don't do it. Nuff said.
Case in point for my previous post.
 
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