"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who here does "Internet Dating"??

white_hype

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I realised recently that tons of dudes here are hooking up with girls off the net. It also seemed like thye were getting pretty hot chicks and getting them realtively easy. I've never done it but I am interested. Now there is no chance of me using this as a subsitute for sarging in real life, but I thought helll if I can just mass email 40 girls a month and get 3 #'s and talk to them then that is already helping to improve my phone game not to mention giving the possibility of f closing even more hot girls and maybe even meeting some LTR quality girls. WIN WIN!

so please post:
sites you use
success rates (how many emails you send out? responses you get? #'s you get? dates? F closes? etc)
your strategy (do you just mass email or what?)
your generic email you send the girls (assuming u do this)
pics of the girls you have met off the net (optional lol)

thx!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sargeholic

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Seriously, there are a lot of threads on this. DAFS.

That being said, my last LTR (solid 8) came from online and I laid like 4 chicks this summer from Match. Its ok, just dont make it your only game.

If you wanna practice phone game, seriously, spam like 100 emails to match chicks with your phone number and a few will call you. Its like cold sarging from there, works good sometimes.
 

DJ4Real

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I don't go online to actively meet women. But, if I happen to catch one that's interesting, I might try to get something going.
 

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agreed. the ratio to hot girls in the real world vs. hot girls online make active online dating pointless. think of a person who goes to a temp agency to find a job vs. a person who gets proper training to find a job. the temp will get assignment after assignment until one works out.

hopefully.

the other guy however.. initially he will spend some time building himself up, but once he gets what he wants.. he'll decide if it meets his needs... and if it doesn't, he'll move on.

so in other words, coming up on some extra cash doing **** on the side is an awesome way to supplement your income. dont expect it to pay the bills though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum, read the myriad of threads, learn how to do it from guys that can do it successfully.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Cannon_96
Internet dating? Don't do it. Nuff said.
Case in point for my previous post.
 
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