"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who have balls/is stupid like this guys|(+movie)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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The guys in this movie ARN'T BALLZY, in fact They are cowards, and they have no respect for other people, in cluding women. I'ts easy to put a hat on, run up behind a woman and pull her pantyes down, AND RUN. Whats harder is, getting the guts to walk up to her and put your igo on the line and risk rejection. Whats harder is trying to comeup with something interasting, intaligent, and funny to say to them. Keep a conversation going for more then a few minutes. Sweep them off their feet with your withs, humor, and charm......
But if you think its easy go and do it... once will do cos I think i would never could do that:/BTW... I read your posts... I think that you sometimes take life and this site to serious... many peoples do... It's about fun, getting succesful, not about going trough the life with some DJ rules like 10 commandments in dark ages
Bubba will like their ass one day.
I did something dumb like this one time ( a little bit different and i won't post the details) as well as a drunken bet. Someone offered me some money. I got kicked out of the bar and I felt like an ass. I had talked to the girl a while and she was nice to.
My feelings of guilt lasted alot longer than the money i won.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.