"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who have balls/is stupid like this guys|(+movie)
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Master Don Juan
The guys in this movie ARN'T BALLZY, in fact They are cowards, and they have no respect for other people, in cluding women. I'ts easy to put a hat on, run up behind a woman and pull her pantyes down, AND RUN. Whats harder is, getting the guts to walk up to her and put your igo on the line and risk rejection. Whats harder is trying to comeup with something interasting, intaligent, and funny to say to them. Keep a conversation going for more then a few minutes. Sweep them off their feet with your withs, humor, and charm......
But if you think its easy go and do it... once will do cos I think i would never could do that:/BTW... I read your posts... I think that you sometimes take life and this site to serious... many peoples do... It's about fun, getting succesful, not about going trough the life with some DJ rules like 10 commandments in dark ages
Bubba will like their ass one day.
I did something dumb like this one time ( a little bit different and i won't post the details) as well as a drunken bet. Someone offered me some money. I got kicked out of the bar and I felt like an ass. I had talked to the girl a while and she was nice to.
My feelings of guilt lasted alot longer than the money i won.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.