"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who has the best game?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have to say Nino and Norway are probably the best. Jaedon (Jack Wealthy) seems to be quite good. BPH and LearningSlowly have rapidly improved. Basically anyone who runs a journal is good here.
 
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amohield said:
I have to say Nino and Norway are probably the best. Jaedon (Jack Wealthy) seems to be quite good. BPH and LearningSlowly have rapidly improved. Basically anyone who runs a journal is good here.
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Except me of course haha.
But yeah most of the journals here are all worth reading.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does game mean?
Is it the ability to approach? Number closing? Instant make out? Your ability to be an alpha? Your conversation skills? Your social dynamics? Your hs reputation? Your overall knowledge of the game?
My general consensus is that being in hs, we are still too young to be fully immersed in game. In hs, game can mean a lot of things, so simply saying 'game' seems too general to me. For us hslers we need to break it down into different parts.

Yeah.
 
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AlexLefty said:
What does game mean?
Is it the ability to approach? Number closing? Instant make out? Your ability to be an alpha? Your conversation skills? Your social dynamics? Your hs reputation? Your overall knowledge of the game?
My general consensus is that being in hs, we are still too young to be fully immersed in game. In hs, game can mean a lot of things, so simply saying 'game' seems too general to me. For us hslers we need to break it down into different parts.

Yeah.
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Dude you're over complicating this sooooo much

I'm just trying to get a vibe for the place, dont need to think about it any more than that. Sure we could break down everyones strengths and weaknesses but thats way too much effort. You get laid on a consistent basis=good game. Thats all I was asking for right meow.
 
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In that case, LearningSlowly, Nino and I. I haven't read the last few pages of Norwegians journal, but the last time I read he had sex was a while ago. Fukctonne of makeouts though. Far more than me.

Nino has sex a fair bit.

Josh gets it regularly. The improvement is the best thing.

I haven't had sex in like a month.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who's Josh?
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Me.

I wouldn't say my game is that good, but I'm flattered to be put in some of these lists. Game is a non-permanent thing. You may have perfect game with one girl, when you're really in state, and she likes you. Or you may fail and flounder over and over with other girls, no matter the situation. I have some of both, I think we all do.
 
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Me.

I wouldn't say my game is that good, but I'm flattered to be put in some of these lists. Game is a non-permanent thing. You may have perfect game with one girl, when you're really in state, and she likes you. Or you may fail and flounder over and over with other girls, no matter the situation. I have some of both, I think we all do.
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True, so true!
 
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We have some people getting there. I'll throw my name in there, though you won't see me post much on here right now.
 
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Sup guys! I'm a former high school AFC and I have now moved on to better things. I am in southern California (LA) & willing to adopt a motivated protege!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To Alex, Josh, etc.

Game is two points: amount of fun had, amount of girls had. That is all. It doesn't matter if you're a mute and afraid of the dark, bang chicks in broad daylight on parkbenches. It is irrelevant to le game.
 
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Jack Wealthy said:
Game is two points: amount of fun had, amount of girls had. That is all. It doesn't matter if you're a mute and afraid of the dark, bang chicks in broad daylight on parkbenches. It is irrelevant to le game.
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Much better definition of game than the one I was assuming. Amount had over the course of life or one experience?
 
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Robyn923b said:
Sup guys! I'm a former high school AFC and I have now moved on to better things. I am in southern California (LA) & willing to adopt a motivated protege!
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You just found him bro, haha
 
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