"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who has the best game?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have to say Nino and Norway are probably the best. Jaedon (Jack Wealthy) seems to be quite good. BPH and LearningSlowly have rapidly improved. Basically anyone who runs a journal is good here.
 

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amohield said:
I have to say Nino and Norway are probably the best. Jaedon (Jack Wealthy) seems to be quite good. BPH and LearningSlowly have rapidly improved. Basically anyone who runs a journal is good here.
Except me of course haha.
But yeah most of the journals here are all worth reading.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What does game mean?
Is it the ability to approach? Number closing? Instant make out? Your ability to be an alpha? Your conversation skills? Your social dynamics? Your hs reputation? Your overall knowledge of the game?
My general consensus is that being in hs, we are still too young to be fully immersed in game. In hs, game can mean a lot of things, so simply saying 'game' seems too general to me. For us hslers we need to break it down into different parts.

Yeah.
 

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AlexLefty said:
What does game mean?
Is it the ability to approach? Number closing? Instant make out? Your ability to be an alpha? Your conversation skills? Your social dynamics? Your hs reputation? Your overall knowledge of the game?
My general consensus is that being in hs, we are still too young to be fully immersed in game. In hs, game can mean a lot of things, so simply saying 'game' seems too general to me. For us hslers we need to break it down into different parts.

Yeah.
Dude you're over complicating this sooooo much

I'm just trying to get a vibe for the place, dont need to think about it any more than that. Sure we could break down everyones strengths and weaknesses but thats way too much effort. You get laid on a consistent basis=good game. Thats all I was asking for right meow.
 

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In that case, LearningSlowly, Nino and I. I haven't read the last few pages of Norwegians journal, but the last time I read he had sex was a while ago. Fukctonne of makeouts though. Far more than me.

Nino has sex a fair bit.

Josh gets it regularly. The improvement is the best thing.

I haven't had sex in like a month.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BPH said:
Who's Josh?
Me.

I wouldn't say my game is that good, but I'm flattered to be put in some of these lists. Game is a non-permanent thing. You may have perfect game with one girl, when you're really in state, and she likes you. Or you may fail and flounder over and over with other girls, no matter the situation. I have some of both, I think we all do.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Me.

I wouldn't say my game is that good, but I'm flattered to be put in some of these lists. Game is a non-permanent thing. You may have perfect game with one girl, when you're really in state, and she likes you. Or you may fail and flounder over and over with other girls, no matter the situation. I have some of both, I think we all do.
True, so true!
 

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We have some people getting there. I'll throw my name in there, though you won't see me post much on here right now.
 

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Sup guys! I'm a former high school AFC and I have now moved on to better things. I am in southern California (LA) & willing to adopt a motivated protege!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To Alex, Josh, etc.

Game is two points: amount of fun had, amount of girls had. That is all. It doesn't matter if you're a mute and afraid of the dark, bang chicks in broad daylight on parkbenches. It is irrelevant to le game.
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
Game is two points: amount of fun had, amount of girls had. That is all. It doesn't matter if you're a mute and afraid of the dark, bang chicks in broad daylight on parkbenches. It is irrelevant to le game.
Much better definition of game than the one I was assuming. Amount had over the course of life or one experience?
 

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Robyn923b said:
Sup guys! I'm a former high school AFC and I have now moved on to better things. I am in southern California (LA) & willing to adopt a motivated protege!
You just found him bro, haha
 
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