"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who has had experience with FRENCH WOMEN??

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I need some helpful feedback from anyone who has had experience dating French women. Not looking for the typical 'stereotype' assumptions that everyone in the world knows about French women, but someone who has actually dated or had a relationship with a French woman.

What made them different in being with men (other than the apparent assumptions already known) and the interactions? What are their expectations?

I am starting to work on one and her feminimity and natural beauty (she doesn't play games like the other western culture women do) is setting me on fire over the typical HB8-9 hottie who are not even worth half the effort due to their self-indulged attitudes. Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You just have to find out what makes her tick step by step. There is a definite difference when you are dealing with a European-raised woman, no doubt about it. Just keep in mind: the more unamericanized she is, the more you will notice differences and incompatibilities, some can be good, some bad. Good luck.
 

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Non-shaven legs are not so bad if the girl has never shaved. It's not like the horrible stubble that American women get after a few days of not shaving; the leg hair is so fine and soft that it's not noticeable.

I draw the line at deodorant, though. If you've ever been around French people in a tropical climate like Martinique, it's hard to be indoors, because the room reeks of armpit.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Non-shaven legs are not so bad if the girl has never shaved. It's not like the horrible stubble that American women get after a few days of not shaving; the leg hair is so fine and soft that it's not noticeable.

I draw the line at deodorant, though. If you've ever been around French people in a tropical climate like Martinique, it's hard to be indoors, because the room reeks of armpit.
Well my experience is limited but the young french chicks I met shaved just like American girls do.
 

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GotED? said:
I need some helpful feedback from anyone who has had experience dating French women. Not looking for the typical 'stereotype' assumptions that everyone in the world knows about French women, but someone who has actually dated or had a relationship with a French woman.

What made them different in being with men (other than the apparent assumptions already known) and the interactions? What are their expectations?

I am starting to work on one and her feminimity and natural beauty (she doesn't play games like the other western culture women do) is setting me on fire over the typical HB8-9 hottie who are not even worth half the effort due to their self-indulged attitudes. Thanks.
In my experience, they were more straightforward as far as verbalizing their feelings and taking the lead on certain things (meet ups, BUYING ME DRINKS etc) but not so much on banter/flirtation. As such, I found it a bit harder to escalate because I wasn't getting the normal feedback I would. (I learned that you just gotta push through) Part of it was the language barrier (though I understand quite a bit of French) but I just felt a lot of my jokes weren't landing as well. In that way I think French girls are a bit more conservative.

Also, I'd say you'd have to lead the conversation a bit more. Even "shy" American girls talk a lot if you get them comfortable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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