"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who has had experience with FRENCH WOMEN??

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I need some helpful feedback from anyone who has had experience dating French women. Not looking for the typical 'stereotype' assumptions that everyone in the world knows about French women, but someone who has actually dated or had a relationship with a French woman.

What made them different in being with men (other than the apparent assumptions already known) and the interactions? What are their expectations?

I am starting to work on one and her feminimity and natural beauty (she doesn't play games like the other western culture women do) is setting me on fire over the typical HB8-9 hottie who are not even worth half the effort due to their self-indulged attitudes. Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You just have to find out what makes her tick step by step. There is a definite difference when you are dealing with a European-raised woman, no doubt about it. Just keep in mind: the more unamericanized she is, the more you will notice differences and incompatibilities, some can be good, some bad. Good luck.
 

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Non-shaven legs are not so bad if the girl has never shaved. It's not like the horrible stubble that American women get after a few days of not shaving; the leg hair is so fine and soft that it's not noticeable.

I draw the line at deodorant, though. If you've ever been around French people in a tropical climate like Martinique, it's hard to be indoors, because the room reeks of armpit.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Non-shaven legs are not so bad if the girl has never shaved. It's not like the horrible stubble that American women get after a few days of not shaving; the leg hair is so fine and soft that it's not noticeable.

I draw the line at deodorant, though. If you've ever been around French people in a tropical climate like Martinique, it's hard to be indoors, because the room reeks of armpit.
Well my experience is limited but the young french chicks I met shaved just like American girls do.
 

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GotED? said:
I need some helpful feedback from anyone who has had experience dating French women. Not looking for the typical 'stereotype' assumptions that everyone in the world knows about French women, but someone who has actually dated or had a relationship with a French woman.

What made them different in being with men (other than the apparent assumptions already known) and the interactions? What are their expectations?

I am starting to work on one and her feminimity and natural beauty (she doesn't play games like the other western culture women do) is setting me on fire over the typical HB8-9 hottie who are not even worth half the effort due to their self-indulged attitudes. Thanks.
In my experience, they were more straightforward as far as verbalizing their feelings and taking the lead on certain things (meet ups, BUYING ME DRINKS etc) but not so much on banter/flirtation. As such, I found it a bit harder to escalate because I wasn't getting the normal feedback I would. (I learned that you just gotta push through) Part of it was the language barrier (though I understand quite a bit of French) but I just felt a lot of my jokes weren't landing as well. In that way I think French girls are a bit more conservative.

Also, I'd say you'd have to lead the conversation a bit more. Even "shy" American girls talk a lot if you get them comfortable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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