"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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John9999

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Ok. I have an opportunity to go out with a woman who is much younger than I am. I am 52 and she is in her early 30s. Plus she has a four-year-old son and the child’s father is nonexistent and provides no support. So , there’s that concern.

Anyway. The biggest gap I’ve dated was 15 years and she was great.

Why am I attracted to younger women. Because they have energy and haven’t hit the wall. Most women over 40 just look average to horrible and don’t want to do anything active.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Epic Days

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23. Half my age. She would come see me when she needed me.
 

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hooked up with a 17 year old recently. Nearly a 20 year age gap lol (ps - age of consent is 16 here before anyone gives me a hard time lol)
 

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Ok. I have an opportunity to go out with a woman who is much younger than I am. I am 52 and she is in her early 30s. Plus she has a four-year-old son and the child’s father is nonexistent and provides no support. So , there’s that concern.

Anyway. The biggest gap I’ve dated was 15 years and she was great.

Why am I attracted to younger women. Because they have energy and haven’t hit the wall. Most women over 40 just look average to horrible and don’t want to do anything active.
10 to 15 year age difference has been pretty standard. The largest was 23, I was 58, she was 35.

Be aware that even though she might say that you won’t meet her child or there are no expectations there, don’t believe it. View this as a temporary thing unless you really want to wind up being a surrogate Father to some other dude’s offspring.

-Augustus-
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She has a kid. She's looking for a provider because she's realized that being a single mom sucks ass, and you need to remember that AT ALL TIMES when interacting with her. If she likes you, everything she does will be aimed towards locking you into a relationship, bear that in mind when you think things are working out great because they will change once she locks you down. Don't be the provider!

There is nothing morally wrong with dating a younger woman, it happens all the time. You don't need anyone's permission, nor should you concern yourself with what others think.
 

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Well I got a try guys. I don’t know about you but for the guys that are in their 40s and 50s, the women our age just look like crap.
Oh yes they do. lol
Most are fat and sour now anyway. What I think is interesting is that they tout their sexuality but their drives suck in the 40's and beyond. But they are highly skilled at manipulating the sex. Very skilled. One, not so long ago, still in fantastic shape, mentioned that she needed more than sex and it was becoming infrequent. Ghosted her with no remorse.
 

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Oh yes they do. lol
Most are fat and sour now anyway. What I think is interesting is that they tout their sexuality but their drives suck in the 40's and beyond. But they are highly skilled at manipulating the sex. Very skilled. One, not so long ago, still in fantastic shape, mentioned that she needed more than sex and it was becoming infrequent. Ghosted her with no remorse.
Most dont care about sex anymore. Let sex drive die and could care less. Their greatest pleasure is controlling and stonewalling men. A blip of sex drive may reappear to cheat on her man and attempt to curry favor from a new man but its not real. Or if her gfs are cheating she will follow suit but it was amped by her gf exploits.
 

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Exactly. Thank you. Only a be womAn I’ve been with who was 48 still kept herself up and loved sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok. I have an opportunity to go out with a woman who is much younger than I am. I am 52 and she is in her early 30s. Plus she has a four-year-old son and the child’s father is nonexistent and provides no support. So , there’s that concern.

Anyway. The biggest gap I’ve dated was 15 years and she was great.

Why am I attracted to younger women. Because they have energy and haven’t hit the wall. Most women over 40 just look average to horrible and don’t want to do anything active.
I stopped reading at she's 30 with kid. Gross.

At 52, assuming you lift, got paper right, can easily date women in her late 20s.
 

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Oh yes they do. lol
Most are fat and sour now anyway. What I think is interesting is that they tout their sexuality but their drives suck in the 40's and beyond. But they are highly skilled at manipulating the sex. Very skilled. One, not so long ago, still in fantastic shape, mentioned that she needed more than sex and it was becoming infrequent. Ghosted her with no remorse.
At 30, top form SMV 18-23 is the targeted demographic. It is also a spectacular troll job running into other women from my past. It infuriating women in the workplace. The wall has spoken.

Im warned the struggle of getting older, shrinking social circle, and the women all having kids. I see guys 40+ poaching epiphany phase. As in mid to late 20s.
 

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52 is still incredibly young for a man provided you're fit and well groomed.

You could still pull women in their late 20's if you put ur mind towards it.
Well I honestly pass for 10 years younger than I am. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I am very healthy and I work out very hard. Fitness is my lifestyle.

It’s almost insulting to see women my age and don’t even try to keep them selves up and healthy and fit. I just can’t respect that
 

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Well I honestly pass for 10 years younger than I am. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I am very healthy and I work out very hard. Fitness is my lifestyle.

It’s almost insulting to see women my age and don’t even try to keep them selves up and healthy and fit. I just can’t respect that
But bit.. Girl power, body positivity, tess fat as ****kkk holiday cosmo cover lulz
 

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I'm still dipping into that 18-21 pool. Call me a creep, but it's all about the energy to me. Young females look at me like I can be a hero. Older women look at me with contempt, like I am somehow responsible for all the guys who've wronged them in the past. Like I represent the male population or something.
I have a lot of experience here. Feminine top form SMV vs older past prime, cratered SMV and contempt hag? Its not even a comparison.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well I honestly pass for 10 years younger than I am. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I am very healthy and I work out very hard. Fitness is my lifestyle.

It’s almost insulting to see women my age and don’t even try to keep them selves up and healthy and fit. I just can’t respect that
I personally know an express bus coach driver that's in his sixties, who exclusively beds young university students.

(A famous man amongst bus drivers, gets a lot of hate yet an equal amount of admiration too.)

He's not a great looking man, pretty average.

But he's fit, dresses really well, carries himself real well.

And during my conversations with him, the thing that strikes me the most is his eloquent speech and his wisdom, that's where I knew how he pulled those young girls to fall for him when they board his bus on long 8 hour trips.

He game girls on a single trip without even spending a dime.
 

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Well I got a try guys. I don’t know about you but for the guys that are in their 40s and 50s, the women our age just look like crap.
Here’s this one that’s so young.
She looks good. I'm dating a woman 20 years younger than me with no kids.
 

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Women are only attractive when young so, i proceed accordingly.
 

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Ok. I have an opportunity to go out with a woman who is much younger than I am. I am 52 and she is in her early 30s. Plus she has a four-year-old son and the child’s father is nonexistent and provides no support. So , there’s that concern.

Anyway. The biggest gap I’ve dated was 15 years and she was great.

Why am I attracted to younger women. Because they have energy and haven’t hit the wall. Most women over 40 just look average to horrible and don’t want to do anything active.
I'm not sure what you consider younger but I've pretty much exclusively dated younger. Usually 4-6 years younger at least. My wife is about 7 years younger than me. Do it right and they'll be at your feet. Do it wrong and any of them are an anchor around your neck.
 
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