"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who has actually read the friggin Bible?

How well do you know the DJ Bible?

  • Noob: The DJ what now?

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • AFC: I skimmed it but I still suck.

    Votes: 6 9.1%
  • RAFC: Read it a few times but not quite there yet.

    Votes: 35 53.0%
  • DJ: Have the mindset and field experience down. Women love me!

    Votes: 16 24.2%
  • Troll: Know every post by heart but still an angry, bitter virgin

    Votes: 3 4.5%
  • Comedy Option: Ninja Pimp shouldn't make threads

    Votes: 6 9.1%

  • Total voters
    66

syncmaster

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Alot of the information in the bible is repeated two dozen times over. It needs to be condensed because it really is way too much to go through. The best learning aid you'll ever have is experience.

Oh - and the last poll option is hilarious :D - i almost pee'd myself. :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ BIBLE: IMPERATIVE FOR NEWBS, USELESS FOR NIGHT GAME

"I'm sorry to say it, but most of the info in the Bible is wildly lacking. The stuff on conversation is tremendously lame."

--Bob, this is sadly where I have to agree. The DJBC in particular can put you into a monotonous 'twenty questions' mode which can be very draining, especially when combined with Gunwitch's motto of never ejecting (at least until the 'ho' as he puts it, says 'no.'). Sometimes, I don't feel like interviewing a girl. Sure, if her interest level is high, she'll start to qualify herself; otherwise, it puts the burden on the male to constantly keep the ball rolling. Try STOPPING the conversation to see what happens. Turn your back to her occasionally. (These are called takeaways, btw).

In fact, MM and Style recommend that you not ask questions (at least not all the time), but intrigue targets by offering them 'chick crack.' That is, give them an excuse to play games of the type that intrigue girls: personality tests, cold reads, that sort of thing. Also, frame your comments so that she offers to give you her number rather than being so blunt: "gimme ya number...".

CONCLUSION:

DJBC: great for getting your feet wet.

MM, and to a lesser extent RSD: you better study these schools if you want to have ANY success at all with night game and two+ sets. And let me tell ya, ALL night sets are at least two sets. Forget about 'lone wolf' approaches at night venues, they just don't exist. Gunwitch has a post on club/bar/nightgame. It's better than nothing, but terribly inadequate.
 

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Re: DJ BIBLE: IMPERATIVE FOR NEWBS, USELESS FOR NIGHT GAME

Originally posted by NorPacWolf

In fact, MM and Style recommend that you not ask questions (at least not all the time), but intrigue targets by offering them 'chick crack.' That is, give them an excuse to play games of the type that intrigue girls: personality tests, cold reads, that sort of thing. Also, frame your comments so that she offers to give you her number rather than being so blunt: "gimme ya number...".

MM, and to a lesser extent RSD: you better study these schools if you want to have ANY success at all with night game and two+ sets. And let me tell ya, ALL night sets are at least two sets. Forget about 'lone wolf' approaches at night venues, they just don't exist. Gunwitch has a post on club/bar/nightgame. It's better than nothing, but terribly inadequate.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

A lot of the stuff in the DJ Bible only helps if the girl is already or immediately attracted to you. It does nothing to CREATE attraction.

I just now started reading The Game, and it was an eye-opener. I ordered several books off amazon and will be reading about MM and NLP and all that good stuff.

Seems a whole lot more powerful than asking typical boring questions like "so uh, what do you do for a living?", "what are you studying?", "what do you like to do for fun?"

Girls hear that **** 400 times a day.

peace
 

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Hey mods,

I really don't appreciate how you have sabotaged my thread with your attempts at humor. You have sullied my reputation, belittled my person and worst of all you really hurt my feelings. I have no choice but to make thread after thread of how you are all abusing you powers and then I will spend countless hours each day harassing other posters and making your work more difficult. (It will be like having 2 Wyldfire's to deal with!) But that's besides the point, which is that I will never forgive you for trying to destroy me. I also piss, fart and **** on everything you stand for or were ever even remotely fond of...





















Just kiddin. By all means continue to have fun doing your thankless jobs.
 

Marlimus

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I read the DJ bible, but it was a daunting process. Its long, not very well organized, verbose, and to be perfectly honest, it has its fair share of bull****.

It needs to be more concise.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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