"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who handles sexual rejection better??

Spookey

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Heard this topic on the radio the other day, it followed in the wake of some Argentinian woman stabbing her man (with a knife!) because he refused her sex.

I would be interested to hear peoples opinions on the subject.

my belief is that men handle it better because we are the ones who approach and we are used to being knocked back. chicks, evolution has it that man went and chased the woman, dragged her into the cave and had his way with her. the growth of "raunch culture" has started to make it less taboo for a female to make the movies on a guy, but this is still not very common.
its funny when hot bods who think all they have to do is semi suggest and they will recieve, are rejected, there seems to be this, "but i want you, that means we should do it, as long as i say yes who cares waht you think,,,, SHAG ME DAMMIT!!" attitude.


What has happened when you have rejected a member of the opposite sex?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thats probably because men get rejected alot more than woman do. Us guys are used to rejection so it doesnt affect us that often. Most good looking woman are used to getting any guy they want, so when a guy rejects her, it is new and suprising to her.
 

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Men rationalize and go by thoughts "She didn't want to ****? Oh well, many more women in the world". Women go by feelings "I feel really hurt because he rejected me. It's my fault, I'm fat, I smell, blah, blah, whatever". They blame it on themselves, and keep thinking about it.
 

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Personally i handle it better than a girl would. Men in general thow. I would have to say otherwise. Too many rapes and **** go down. Men are always at blame....i know i know....a women raping a man would look well wierd. Women generally handle lack of sex better than blokes thow. They can go without longer...Men were put on earth to sow their seed.
 
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