"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who handles sexual rejection better??

Spookey

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Heard this topic on the radio the other day, it followed in the wake of some Argentinian woman stabbing her man (with a knife!) because he refused her sex.

I would be interested to hear peoples opinions on the subject.

my belief is that men handle it better because we are the ones who approach and we are used to being knocked back. chicks, evolution has it that man went and chased the woman, dragged her into the cave and had his way with her. the growth of "raunch culture" has started to make it less taboo for a female to make the movies on a guy, but this is still not very common.
its funny when hot bods who think all they have to do is semi suggest and they will recieve, are rejected, there seems to be this, "but i want you, that means we should do it, as long as i say yes who cares waht you think,,,, SHAG ME DAMMIT!!" attitude.


What has happened when you have rejected a member of the opposite sex?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thats probably because men get rejected alot more than woman do. Us guys are used to rejection so it doesnt affect us that often. Most good looking woman are used to getting any guy they want, so when a guy rejects her, it is new and suprising to her.
 

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Men rationalize and go by thoughts "She didn't want to ****? Oh well, many more women in the world". Women go by feelings "I feel really hurt because he rejected me. It's my fault, I'm fat, I smell, blah, blah, whatever". They blame it on themselves, and keep thinking about it.
 

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Personally i handle it better than a girl would. Men in general thow. I would have to say otherwise. Too many rapes and **** go down. Men are always at blame....i know i know....a women raping a man would look well wierd. Women generally handle lack of sex better than blokes thow. They can go without longer...Men were put on earth to sow their seed.
 
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