"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
pressure0354
Don Juan
I used to be in a group of friends in high school who smoked all the time, they bought it and pretty much always had some on hand. They would probably smoke once or twice a day at least. I've stopped hanging with them but still have some friends who are pretty much potheads.
The reason I stopped hanging with my high school buds is not because they smoked weed, but because I got bored.
Personally, I think it is fine if you smoke once in awhile. I have smoked probably 35-40 times in my life. By that I mean, I mean just a puff. I have probably been high about 10 times. Its like drinking, just becuase you have one beer doesnt mean you are "drinking" necessarily.
However, there is danger in such a drug. I got bored with my old friend because it became an obession. Always on a quest to get more weed, get high, and do nothing. They did the same sh*t constantly sitting around on a couch playing video games, giggle at stupid things, and order pizza. I know people knock the anti-drug commercials, but i think the most recent one with the kid just sitting on a couch is acurate. It is easy for people to become more and more of a user because its dangers are mostly invisible until its too late, and bam, you are smoking weed everyday and caught in a cycle. They would say, "I am not a pothead, I can stop anytime I want." , yet they became phycologically dependant on it and couldn't go a week without smoking. I knew some other people who developed a sleep dependency on the drug. Constanlty spending money on it and addicted to always wanting to get high. You end up hanging with people who smoke because you don't want a buzz kill around.
So in essence, everything in moderation. Once you own a bowl or a bong and find yourself constantly short of cash, it might be time to look at yourself.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
It's good when you smoke it at the start but eventually it just gives you a headache and bad memory.
I kicked that stuff and feel a whole world better. It's rubbish if you ask me, I'd rather play computer games man.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
MuayThai said:
But what about playing computer games high...?