"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who fornicates Mary Jane?

MagnuM

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On occasion I have a one night stand with her. But I am not down for a relationship.

What about you guys? What is your stance on the recreational use of the Cannabis sativa and indica plants? heh
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pressure0354

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My backround: I have had many friends who smoked all the time, were occasional smokers, and who are against it hardcore.

I used to be in a group of friends in high school who smoked all the time, they bought it and pretty much always had some on hand. They would probably smoke once or twice a day at least. I've stopped hanging with them but still have some friends who are pretty much potheads.

The reason I stopped hanging with my high school buds is not because they smoked weed, but because I got bored.

Personally, I think it is fine if you smoke once in awhile. I have smoked probably 35-40 times in my life. By that I mean, I mean just a puff. I have probably been high about 10 times. Its like drinking, just becuase you have one beer doesnt mean you are "drinking" necessarily.

However, there is danger in such a drug. I got bored with my old friend because it became an obession. Always on a quest to get more weed, get high, and do nothing. They did the same sh*t constantly sitting around on a couch playing video games, giggle at stupid things, and order pizza. I know people knock the anti-drug commercials, but i think the most recent one with the kid just sitting on a couch is acurate. It is easy for people to become more and more of a user because its dangers are mostly invisible until its too late, and bam, you are smoking weed everyday and caught in a cycle. They would say, "I am not a pothead, I can stop anytime I want." , yet they became phycologically dependant on it and couldn't go a week without smoking. I knew some other people who developed a sleep dependency on the drug. Constanlty spending money on it and addicted to always wanting to get high. You end up hanging with people who smoke because you don't want a buzz kill around.

So in essence, everything in moderation. Once you own a bowl or a bong and find yourself constantly short of cash, it might be time to look at yourself.:cool:
 

ValleyDJing

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Tried it once. I didn't think it was all that it was cracked up to be. It honestly wasn't that fun. Sure things were a little bit funnier and my problems disappeared for a couple hours but come on. Now I'm gonna have to explain that s.hit when I take my polygraph to get in the FBI in a couple years. I think I'm just gonna tell the truth and tell em I was a dumb kid under peer pressure.
 

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I used to smoke that stuff loads, I mean all the time. I was pretty much stoned through out my last year at upper school.
It's good when you smoke it at the start but eventually it just gives you a headache and bad memory.
I kicked that stuff and feel a whole world better. It's rubbish if you ask me, I'd rather play computer games man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TyTe`EyEs

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MuayThai said:
I'd rather play computer games man.

But what about playing computer games high...?
 
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