You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dude you have any idea how much greater the chances are of getting a girl pregnant when you pull out? Not to mention that you WILL contract STI's if the girl has one. Who gives a sh*t about your friend; thats ONE example of just someone whos gotten lucky and has a lot of control over himself.horaholic said:You dont think its fun shootin loads on girls faces? or Tits? or Ass? or filling their belly button up with cvm? Even when I have a gf thats on the pill, I'll still pull out and shoot on her sometimes. It's fun sometimes. You need to expand your horizons, dude.
There is almost no way to get a girl pregnant from pulling out. Yes, it's POSSIBLE. Its also possible to get struck by lightning or hit the lottery too. I feel sorry for anyone who cant control their own **** enough to time the pull out.
My old buddy was married for 10 years, and his wife was never on the pill,. cuz he didnt want her to get crazy, like pills make you do, and he pulled out for YEARS until they decided to have another baby. They must have fvcked a few thousand times that way with no pregnancies that they didnt plan for. Obviously, pulling out works fine, as long as you're smarter that your dyck.
yeah, and #2 is the main reason why guys who pull out end up getting girls pregnant. doing the girl, pulling out, and then doing her again right after even though you still have sperm in your dck from the first time.DonGorgon said:Many men try this but mess up in 2 main ways..
1. they wait until they feel like they are about to cuum to pull out.. Pre cuum has already come out and even some actual cuum since most men will not feel ejaculation until after it has started.
2. they F the girl again shortly after have in ejaculated ...lol millions of spermatazoans are all over the room at that point and risk is high if she is at the mid point if her cycle which is also when she is hornyest,,,
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.