Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude you have any idea how much greater the chances are of getting a girl pregnant when you pull out? Not to mention that you WILL contract STI's if the girl has one. Who gives a sh*t about your friend; thats ONE example of just someone whos gotten lucky and has a lot of control over himself.horaholic said:You dont think its fun shootin loads on girls faces? or Tits? or Ass? or filling their belly button up with cvm? Even when I have a gf thats on the pill, I'll still pull out and shoot on her sometimes. It's fun sometimes. You need to expand your horizons, dude.
There is almost no way to get a girl pregnant from pulling out. Yes, it's POSSIBLE. Its also possible to get struck by lightning or hit the lottery too. I feel sorry for anyone who cant control their own **** enough to time the pull out.
My old buddy was married for 10 years, and his wife was never on the pill,. cuz he didnt want her to get crazy, like pills make you do, and he pulled out for YEARS until they decided to have another baby. They must have fvcked a few thousand times that way with no pregnancies that they didnt plan for. Obviously, pulling out works fine, as long as you're smarter that your dyck.
yeah, and #2 is the main reason why guys who pull out end up getting girls pregnant. doing the girl, pulling out, and then doing her again right after even though you still have sperm in your dck from the first time.DonGorgon said:Many men try this but mess up in 2 main ways..
1. they wait until they feel like they are about to cuum to pull out.. Pre cuum has already come out and even some actual cuum since most men will not feel ejaculation until after it has started.
2. they F the girl again shortly after have in ejaculated ...lol millions of spermatazoans are all over the room at that point and risk is high if she is at the mid point if her cycle which is also when she is hornyest,,,
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.