Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude you have any idea how much greater the chances are of getting a girl pregnant when you pull out? Not to mention that you WILL contract STI's if the girl has one. Who gives a sh*t about your friend; thats ONE example of just someone whos gotten lucky and has a lot of control over himself.horaholic said:You dont think its fun shootin loads on girls faces? or Tits? or Ass? or filling their belly button up with cvm? Even when I have a gf thats on the pill, I'll still pull out and shoot on her sometimes. It's fun sometimes. You need to expand your horizons, dude.
There is almost no way to get a girl pregnant from pulling out. Yes, it's POSSIBLE. Its also possible to get struck by lightning or hit the lottery too. I feel sorry for anyone who cant control their own **** enough to time the pull out.
My old buddy was married for 10 years, and his wife was never on the pill,. cuz he didnt want her to get crazy, like pills make you do, and he pulled out for YEARS until they decided to have another baby. They must have fvcked a few thousand times that way with no pregnancies that they didnt plan for. Obviously, pulling out works fine, as long as you're smarter that your dyck.
yeah, and #2 is the main reason why guys who pull out end up getting girls pregnant. doing the girl, pulling out, and then doing her again right after even though you still have sperm in your dck from the first time.DonGorgon said:Many men try this but mess up in 2 main ways..
1. they wait until they feel like they are about to cuum to pull out.. Pre cuum has already come out and even some actual cuum since most men will not feel ejaculation until after it has started.
2. they F the girl again shortly after have in ejaculated ...lol millions of spermatazoans are all over the room at that point and risk is high if she is at the mid point if her cycle which is also when she is hornyest,,,
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.