"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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who do women message in their mobile all the day

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are they message their girlfriends ( as their claim ) , or messaging guys ?
any experience ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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evan12 said:
are they message their girlfriends ( as their claim ) , or messaging guys ?
any experience ?
Let me help you with this sentence because grammar drives me crazy (sorry).

WhoM do girls text? Do they message their girlfriends (as they claim), or do they message guys?

Now my question to you is, you can't be serious when asking this? Who do you text? Who cares? But to answer your question, I'm guessing her friends or family...
 
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thanks for grammar correction
I am serious about this question ,because I want to know when I see a girl texting all the day , does that mean she has some one or not
if they are her friends /family when she is texting all the time and how is that interesting topic that make her open her inbox as soon as she find a chance too
 

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evan12 said:
thanks for grammar correction
I am serious about this question ,because I want to know when I see a girl texting all the day , does that mean she has some one or not
if they are her friends /family when she is texting all the time and how is that interesting topic that make her open her inbox as soon as she find a chance too
Interesting topic? They're women. They can have a 2-hour conversation based on chocolate candy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It could be a guy or a girl or a combo of both or... with Phones now having all these social networking applications, they could be on that too. I was messing around with a girl who was ALWAYS on her iPhone. Every little thing that was going on with her was posted on facebook, I mean seriously,... do you have to post EVERY little thing on facebook? come on. Even when i F*cked her... right after she went on FB and said "what a night ;)" lol i mean thats good for me.. but do you really have to post everything? My goodness.
 

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JumpOff said:
Let me help you with this sentence because grammar drives me crazy (sorry).

Who do girls text? Do they message their girlfriends (as they claim), or do they message guys?
Hahahah what's the internet law that says any time someone corrects somebody else, the correction will include an error of its own?

Should be WHOM do girls text..

Anyway, they're texting me ;)
 

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This is actually a really good question. I send/receive roughly 400 texts a month, while I know girls who are around 3,000!!! I imagine it would be 20 times easier to just talk over the phone.
 

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Whether they have someone or not, they're going to be texting all day, so you can't tell anything from that.

And if they're good looking, they have someone. But they could be looking to move up, or maybe just make a change.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm with Meast, you can definitely up your comfort and rapport with texting. Never bought into that whole "Real men don't text" concept. That's an outdated idea.
 

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zekko said:
I'm with Meast, you can definitely up your comfort and rapport with texting. Never bought into that whole "Real men don't text" concept. That's an outdated idea.
Let them keep thinking that, just means more for those of us who have adapted.

My girl and I have spoken on the phone a total of two times and those were only because it it was something urgent. On the other hand the number of texts between us are in the thousands.
 

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If i see a girl texting too much one of the first things I assume is that she is on a dating site. Girls make profiles on dating sites just to talk crap with dudes all day...
 

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the average females who is a 6 or 7 in looks has many many males trying to mate with her all day every day and those men are alway contacting her trying to make it happen so females have to do what i call pu$$y management its a 24 hour a day job
 
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