who do females always choose jerks over nice guys?

[krs]

its unfair. i'm a nice guy but every time the females chose the jerk. because of this i'm a 38 year old virgin. it sucks. why do they do this?

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Because a man is meant to be a man. Normally when a man is acting like a 'jerk' he does something nice that no one else except the girl can see.

Put it this way, a mature woman is looking for a mentally stable man who can protect her and be assertive. Sometimes this makes the man look like a jerk but hes just doing what the primal DNA tells him to.

Most women dont want a fairie for a partner. You should step up and start being more assertive. Modern media (Movies books etc) make the perfect man look like a beta ***** boy faggot whos caring and touching (Which, theres nothing wrong with that as long as he has some sort of manly qualities) Bruno mars for example. Girls swoon over him, but a guy who actually sends a girl hes not official with flowers.. just makes him look like a bvtch pansy.



BTW: Obv troll.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Its like you playing the first Mario game on the original nes, it's so easy, you know every enemy that pop up on the screen, you beat the game over and over, its easy to control.

Then you stop playing Mario, and play ninja gaiden for x-box 360, the graphics look good, the game is more challenging, so you don't know what enemies pop up, the bosses get tougher and tougher, you soon forget about Mario because ninja gaiden is more exciting and unpredictable.

Mario = nice guys

ninja gaiden = jerks

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Its like you playing the first Mario game on the original nes, it's so easy, you know every enemy that pop up on the screen, you beat the game over and over, its easy to control.

Then you stop playing Mario, and play ninja gaiden for x-box 360, the graphics look good, the game is more challenging, so you don't know what enemies pop up, the bosses get tougher and tougher, you soon forget about Mario because ninja gaiden is more exciting and unpredictable.

Mario = nice guys

ninja gaiden = jerks

This too, I actually like the video game reference. Our OP troll virgin can probably relate. But Jay is absolutely right

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Holy FUKC!!!

Will we please stop with the analogies to video games and television show characters???

Does no one any help in the REAL ACTUAL WORLD....

 

[plate's_empty]

its unfair. i'm a nice guy but every time the females chose the jerk. because of this i'm a 38 year old virgin. it sucks. why do they do this?

It's bad enough you post a question that gets answered on the first page of every Pick up manual and dating site out there. The least you could do is take the time to spell correctly.

It's obvious you're a troll, but to be a good troll, you should try to think of something more creative....and use proper grammar.

 

[krs]

Because a man is meant to be a man. Normally when a man is acting like a 'jerk' he does something nice that no one else except the girl can see.

Put it this way, a mature woman is looking for a mentally stable man who can protect her and be assertive. Sometimes this makes the man look like a jerk but hes just doing what the primal DNA tells him to.

Most women dont want a fairie for a partner. You should step up and start being more assertive. Modern media (Movies books etc) make the perfect man look like a beta ***** boy faggot whos caring and touching (Which, theres nothing wrong with that as long as he has some sort of manly qualities) Bruno mars for example. Girls swoon over him, but a guy who actually sends a girl hes not official with flowers.. just makes him look like a bvtch pansy.



BTW: Obv troll.

i'm a man because i have a **** and its big. im not a troll. this is real. its so unfair that you called me a troll. it isn't funny. i buy her dinner and drinks whatever she wants and even got a few flowers. they don't appreciate it and every time i got flowers it creeped em out. wtf? im nice to them in conversation and don't disagree with them even if i do. im not to them and treat em like humans unlike jerks do. i respect them by not touching them because they say they like to wait. im straight not gay. i just want females not other males. what the hell are you talking about moden media, they show jerks getting too many females. nice guys deserve more. it sucks. its so unfair. im so nice. but i don't get squat.

 

[krs]

Its like you playing the first Mario game on the original nes, it's so easy, you know every enemy that pop up on the screen, you beat the game over and over, its easy to control.

Then you stop playing Mario, and play ninja gaiden for x-box 360, the graphics look good, the game is more challenging, so you don't know what enemies pop up, the bosses get tougher and tougher, you soon forget about Mario because ninja gaiden is more exciting and unpredictable.

Mario = nice guys

ninja gaiden = jerks

this isn't a dumb video game. this is real. im 38 and haven't even had sex yet. im nice like im supposed to be but females always go for the jerk. its so unfair.

 

[krs]

It's bad enough you post a question that gets answered on the first page of every Pick up manual and dating site out there. The least you could do is take the time to spell correctly.

It's obvious you're a troll, but to be a good troll, you should try to think of something more creative....and use proper grammar.

im not a troll and its never been answered. im a nice guy and treat females nicely. im so nice to them. im always nice. but they go for the jerk every time. its very very very very very very very very very very unfair.

 

[Mike32ct]

The nice vs jerk is a smokescreen. It's about looks. It will always be about looks.

The jerk guy might be tall, althletic, muscular, tanned, have a hot face, chiseled jaw, broad shoulders, thick head of hair (or looks good shaved/buzzed), or some combination thereof.

Only being a weak pushover is a turn off to women. Being nice isn't inherently bad as long as you aren't a constant arse kisser.

Work out. Get a stylish hair cut.

A short, balding, fat, ugly guy acting like a jerk isn't likely to score.

A hot guy can be a sweetheart nice guy and still score.

Women can't come out and say the truth, "You're average looking and therefore ugly to me. I don't have the heart to tell you this so I'm gonna say you're too nice.."

Why is it about looks? Because its about sex. A guy that makes her wet is like crack to her.

Men think with their cawks. Women think with their vag-es.

I'm not saying jerk game doesn't exist. It most certainly does. A hot woman used to guys kissing her arse can respond very powerfully to a guy being a jerk to her. BUT, he MUST pass the looks test first. Why would she tolerate jerk behavior from a guy that doesn't turn her on?

Looks first. Behavior second.

 

[krs]

The nice vs jerk is a smokescreen. It's about looks. It will always be about looks.

The jerk guy might be tall, althletic, muscular, tanned, have a hot face, chiseled jaw, broad shoulders, thick head of hair (or looks good shaved/buzzed), or some combination thereof.

Only being a weak pushover is a turn off to women.

Work out. Get a stylish hair cut.

A short, balding, fat, ugly guy acting like a jerk isn't likely to score.

A hot guy can be a sweetheart nice guy and still score.

its so unfair. im tall and have a big ****. im so nice and generous to the females and put so much time and effort and money in. then the next night they **** a jerk who doesn't even try. it sucks.

 

[krs]

This is the dumbest sh!t I've ever read.

Nice guys don't get chicks because they don't trigger secksual desire in women. That's it. You're too passive; too unwilling; no ambition; lack determination; etc. You probably haven't aged well.

Stop pvssyfooting around and start taking what you want. You want that girl sitting over at the bar? Be decisive and unapologetic in your approach. A woman is acting like a little b!tch? Turn around and leave. When you get caught up in fairytale romances and videogame bullsh!t your mind will get clouded with doubt and fear because you're not acting within societies parameters.

Man the fvck up.

your all jerks and deserve to be a virgins. im so nice to females yet im the virgin. its so unfair.

 

[DragonBlood]

i put so much time and effort and money in.

What are you trying to compensate for?

 

[Night-hawk]

Nice guys to women are like cold meals. It looks good and they know its good, but it just doesn't taste the same as it would heated up.

Heated up=triggering sexual desire, as mentioned above.

 

[Purefilth]

OP just wants to cry about how unfair it is, he doesn't want to fix it he just wants to whinge. If he asks for help, then it will be given, but he should probably take his white knight azz back over to PUAHATE, there he will be happier with his own kind.

 

[iamnobody]

@ OP: so tou have a big **** and you're a man. The virgin type.
I guess we'll have to take your word regarding the size, since nobody else ever saw it. It's like the dodo bird.
Now, about the second part: "I'm a man". Sir, until you stop being a candy arse, you're not. Going. To. Be. A. Man.
You keep being nice to chicks and you grt nowhere, wondering why jerks get results. Instead, become a jerk or die virgin. In the meanwhile, browse SS, see why jerks get *****. Troll.

 

[VladPatton]

You should try being a jerk, it's the way to go. Just walk up to a girl, and girl on the street and say "yo bıtch, you with me, now!".

Grab her, and you got yourself a girlfriend. Expect to lose your virginity about 13 minutes afterwards. It's all very simple, it's how 98.4% of us do it around here. Tis true. Google it.

 

[twentee]

aw, po' li'l BABY. BOOHOO. can't get any, it's the end of the world, so why not just end it all, then, punk?

 

[JoeMarron]

Painfully obvious troll but I have one thing to say. There's no way a dude could reach 38 and still be a virgin while legitimately trying to get laid his entire adult life. You'd have to be a hideous monstrosity of a person to fail for this long.

 

[floydb25]

Exactly what Mike said... although it can vary on the women, as well. Never forget that like attracts like. A ***** isn't going to be nice - even if you are "hot". She might want your balls, but that doesn't change who she is. She will also gravitate more towards *******s. Unfortunately, most "hot" people aren't very nice. You might also be attracted to *****es yourself, and may not be all that nice.

Behavior does have a pretty large effect, though. How you talk, act, dress, carry yourself, etc. An exciting, social personality is definitely better than a nice one. It all comes together at the same time, in the first interaction.

The OP is either a troll, or a whining, entitled sissy. That's why he's failing. Can see it right here. Still say troll, though. You can't be THAT retarded.