"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who decided nudity is "bad?"

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Holland, Spain and especially south coast France are great for topless women at beaches. But believe me. It's not that special. You wont be running around with a boner from it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diplomatic_lies said:
I believe Seinfeld said best when he said, if women wore hats all the time, men would get horny by looking at woman's hair!

Its all about what we can't have. Ever notice how half-clothed women are sexier than naked women?
My thoughts exactly!

I've got a new idea though as to how exactly all this started. Maybe it's to do with climate. In warmer places (e.g. spain, south america), the "stigma" attached to nudity isn't as bad. Is this a coincidence?

I don't think so. Because it is colder in America/England, people were required to wear clothes all the time. It started off purely as a climatic thing. But as time went on, because people very very rarely get to see each other naked anymore, people started getting turned on when they see boobs and stuff.

And when people get turned on, its a bad thing (for the church, etc.), and so, nudity was banned (so to speak).

Watcha guys think?
 
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