"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who decided nudity is "bad?"

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Holland, Spain and especially south coast France are great for topless women at beaches. But believe me. It's not that special. You wont be running around with a boner from it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diplomatic_lies said:
I believe Seinfeld said best when he said, if women wore hats all the time, men would get horny by looking at woman's hair!

Its all about what we can't have. Ever notice how half-clothed women are sexier than naked women?
My thoughts exactly!

I've got a new idea though as to how exactly all this started. Maybe it's to do with climate. In warmer places (e.g. spain, south america), the "stigma" attached to nudity isn't as bad. Is this a coincidence?

I don't think so. Because it is colder in America/England, people were required to wear clothes all the time. It started off purely as a climatic thing. But as time went on, because people very very rarely get to see each other naked anymore, people started getting turned on when they see boobs and stuff.

And when people get turned on, its a bad thing (for the church, etc.), and so, nudity was banned (so to speak).

Watcha guys think?
 
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