"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who decided nudity is "bad?"

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Holland, Spain and especially south coast France are great for topless women at beaches. But believe me. It's not that special. You wont be running around with a boner from it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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diplomatic_lies said:
I believe Seinfeld said best when he said, if women wore hats all the time, men would get horny by looking at woman's hair!

Its all about what we can't have. Ever notice how half-clothed women are sexier than naked women?
My thoughts exactly!

I've got a new idea though as to how exactly all this started. Maybe it's to do with climate. In warmer places (e.g. spain, south america), the "stigma" attached to nudity isn't as bad. Is this a coincidence?

I don't think so. Because it is colder in America/England, people were required to wear clothes all the time. It started off purely as a climatic thing. But as time went on, because people very very rarely get to see each other naked anymore, people started getting turned on when they see boobs and stuff.

And when people get turned on, its a bad thing (for the church, etc.), and so, nudity was banned (so to speak).

Watcha guys think?
 
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