You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good question, searching for life out there by finding similar planets to ours might well severely limit the scope of the results we get.…
That, and also where there are trillions of planets, there are going to be others with "earth like" conditions.
I think the point Bob Lazar was making is, that they have managed to stabilise element 115
Seems it was called a "stable isotope of element 115". It has not been observed to be naturally occurring in the known universe and other elements of such high mass takes extreme amounts of time and energy to synthesize just a single atom. Only for it to be gone in literally the blink of an eye. There's also no way to stop radioactive decay other than by altering time itself (through the relativistic effects of time dilation), but he makes no mention of that which he would if he observed such a device among the other things he claims to have observed.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In case you haven't heard about it, this phenomenon is called ball lightning and there's a ton of sightings throughout history. Due to how seemingly random and relatively short lived they are it's very difficult to study. It's still an elusive mystery in science and it still remains unproven.
My friend saw the same thing. He still researches it and talks about it to this day.
I've heard of it. I do think it was that, though we don't know what that is.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah, my brother saw it in central Virginia.
