She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
steve: "Doug is like a fax machine, the paper goes in through the top, and if you don't attach a cover page, no one knows where your coming from. and theres a redial button and a memory, but i never use that"Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
- Will Ferrell in "A Night at the Roxbury". A true ladies man!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That guy's hilarious! I just spent 2 hours reading through his random sex stories, and looking at pictures of his ex-gfs. The dude's a natural born pimp...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You need to stop taking things so seriously. I'm being really light here, told you who I think is cool, not who I exactly want to be like (since they are fictional).Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Anime, movies, "Friends", and video games?
These guys are your role models.
We as a society are collectively f*cked.
My fault, I apparently mis-read the thread's title. Apparently "role models" is pronounced "fictional video game people I think are cool".Originally posted by Nex
You need to stop taking things so seriously. I'm being really light here, told you who I think is cool, not who I exactly want to be like (since they are fictional).
Definitely, he's one of my role models. he's too cool for words... :woo:Originally posted by FriendlyFriend
i cant belive no one has mentioned a true don juan,
Johnny Depp, he is awesome
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I bear many, many similarities to Jesus Christ.Originally posted by rgeere
My role models are Jesus Christ and Giovanni Casanova ... Believe it or not they were both ladies men.
Not you, the origional one ...Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I bear many, many similarities to Jesus Christ.
Oh, please... you know I'm your role model. Me and Jesus.
ah him, actually i admire his personality and character. Better than johnny depp any day! completely forgot about farrelOriginally posted by TheCalmGuy
Well I think a very nice don juan role model is Collin Farrell he was voted as the most sexy man by People magazine. His cool, laid back and his a bad boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.