"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who are your DJ role models?

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Hey guys I was wondering who you guys consider to be your role models on your DJ quest and why? Mine are as follows:

Me-Because there is only one ;-)
James Bond- A given, preference is given to Sean Connery and Daniel Craig
Tom Cruise as Maverick- Very ****y, confident and arrogant but funny
Brad Pitt-Always displaying confident, relaxed alpha male qualities
Trey Songz- His songs gets the hoes panties wet
Don Juan DeMarco- He's crazy as he wants to be, but he's the most romantic person I've ever seen!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well I like Girl Talk a lot but he always says he is not a DJ

Armand Van Helden is cool
Calvin Harris is good too
 
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Derek Jeter

...and also Bret Michaels, Ray J, The Situation from Jersey shoree...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just a few of the people i look up to..

george st. pierre - after winning the welter weight title, GSP lost his belt during his first title denfense to a huge under dog. GSP then changed his whole entourage, coaches and training regime. He then fought his way back up the ufc to earn his title once again.

spiderman - "with great power, comes great responsibility"

rollo tomassi - this guy is soo full of wisdom, you cant even put it on a wisdom scale.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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