"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who are your DJ role models?

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Hey guys I was wondering who you guys consider to be your role models on your DJ quest and why? Mine are as follows:

Me-Because there is only one ;-)
James Bond- A given, preference is given to Sean Connery and Daniel Craig
Tom Cruise as Maverick- Very ****y, confident and arrogant but funny
Brad Pitt-Always displaying confident, relaxed alpha male qualities
Trey Songz- His songs gets the hoes panties wet
Don Juan DeMarco- He's crazy as he wants to be, but he's the most romantic person I've ever seen!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well I like Girl Talk a lot but he always says he is not a DJ

Armand Van Helden is cool
Calvin Harris is good too
 
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Derek Jeter

...and also Bret Michaels, Ray J, The Situation from Jersey shoree...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just a few of the people i look up to..

george st. pierre - after winning the welter weight title, GSP lost his belt during his first title denfense to a huge under dog. GSP then changed his whole entourage, coaches and training regime. He then fought his way back up the ufc to earn his title once again.

spiderman - "with great power, comes great responsibility"

rollo tomassi - this guy is soo full of wisdom, you cant even put it on a wisdom scale.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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