"Who are you here with?"

[asdfghjkl]

For some reason, girls always seem to ask me this question. For example, last night i saw a HB7 that i knew, but none of my friends did. So, a little while passes and i decide to go over and talk to her. This is the first question she asks me after the hellos and everything. This has happened alot of times, with girls i know well and girls i dont.

I thought about it and came up with a few reasons why they keep asking this

1. Their just feeding their addictions to social proof
2. I always smell nice, maybe they think im on a date?
3. Their just making passing conversation...

Any thoughts?

 

[Sean O]

Well, let me put it this way: for what reason would you ask a girl who she's with?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Well, think of a ****y and funny reply to that - "why would you want to know, you want me to be your escort or something? "

That's off the top of my head. ****y and funny.

 

[DJDamage]

Well, think of a ****y and funny reply to that.

That is pretty much it. As soon as you start answering her questions seriously you lose all your mystery and mystique. Insert a ****y and funny comment that will lead to a funny conversation and take it from there.

"I am here with my mommy"

 

[asdfghjkl]

Well, let me put it this way: for what reason would you ask a girl who she's with?

See, that's the problem im having because i wouldn't ask that question in the first place haha.

 

[Incog]

She wants to know if you are socially valuable. If you tell her who you are with, she will analyze and determine based on that.

That is the only reason.

I like DJDamage's response.

 

[Derek Flint]

"Why? You lookin' to upgrade?"

 

[Oxide]

Friends... what the **** kind of question is this? Lemme think, who are YOU here with? Are your friends hot? Are they thinner than you?

 

[Kev07]

i asked a girl that before on a cold approach at a club, I only had conversation in mind (bad attempt i know oh well)

 

[azanon]

"I'm supposed to be here with somebody?" * smile *

I'd probably avoid the excessively smartass response or overly reactive response unless you decided right then that you don't want her. Overreating takes some power from you because you're basically losing your cool when doing it.

 

[Chemistry]

It's small talk... chick has no line so she asks that question...

If you're in good spirits tell her that you're there with your wingman... undoubtedly that will kick start the conversation and she'll wonder what a wingman is... then you can make a wingman whatever you want to make it... you want to give her his totally not true sob story so she fixes him up with one of her friends, go right ahead... lol

 

[azanon]

Oh yeah, if you actually did come with someone or a few people, then the truth would be a perfectly fine answer. No reason to make a mound out of a mole hill.

 

[amoka]

I like Luke Skywalker's response: "why would you want to know? would you like me to be your escort or something....".

 

[asdfghjkl]

Oh yeah, if you actually did come with someone or a few people, then the truth would be a perfectly fine answer. No reason to make a mound out of a mole hill.

Yea, that's what i usually do, because i always go places with my friends. But i think next time i get asked this question im goin to try to use some C&F, nothing too big, maybe what DJDamage said.

Thanks for the input guys