"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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who are the seductions scammers ?

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WHO ARE THE SEDUCTION SCAMMERS?

MYSTERY

DE ANGELO

XUMA
SWINGCAT ( should get the first prize for scamming )
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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based on what?

I dont think any of them are scammers, they are all good at what they do.
 

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Xuma reeks of dishonesty and greed. If you order anything from him, you'll start gettting spammed like you've never seen before. I find him to be inconsistent and incongruent.

If you order something from him when he emphasises a money-back guarantee, he sends out several versions of a story where he talks about some guy who wanted his money back, but who is a loser douche because of that.
 

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Why swinggcat? He follows Robert Greene's laws of seduction etc. about the coquette and the rake and the dandy etc etc etc. I never would have known how to identify certain seducers if I hadn't listened to swinggcat. Don't pay for every one out there's sh!t though.

I've taken the bits and pieces of many of them, but swinggcat's I transcribed to paper to let it sink in. You can go into seduction mode when out interacting with women and then go back to being yourself when around dudes or coworkers. It's like letting the genie out of the bottle. Whenever I meet a woman (that's hot obviously), I go into seduction mode, and it's just a natural transition because I'm turned on and this being here before me talking with me makes me want to fvck it. There is no long-term love in me unless she plays all her cards right. If she worships me, she MAY have a long-term relationship with me. If not, I've fvcked you, now...goodbye.
 

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ya know, I think they have have legitimate things they say, and a lot of stuff works, it's the prices are marketing tactics that are the problem. I would NEVER spend $3000 on a silly bootcamp when practice, and approaching, and figuring out what works for YOU is the best thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Poonani Maker said:
You can go into seduction mode when out interacting with women and then go back to being yourself when around dudes or coworkers
That sounds exhausting. I would rather just be myself 100% of the time, even if the results suffer a little. If you make yourself an attractive person you don't have to change yourself when you're around women.

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I would NEVER spend $3000 on a silly bootcamp when practice, and approaching, and figuring out what works for YOU is the best thing.
I could see the benefit of having an experienced eye watching you from an outside perspective and telling you what you're doing wrong, what you're doing right, where you can improve, etc. Sort of like a coach fixing a golf swing. But I still wouldn't pay for it, and especially not anything like $3000.
 

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I've never heard of Xuma and swingcat.

David D I've read and listened to some of his stuff, and he sounds prettylogical. He doesn't seem like one of those crazy outgoing types, but more of a "nice guy" who just went out and forced him self to learn a lot of information and go through a lot of practice to improve.

I know he has other businesses and what not, and I haven't looked into any of those, so not sure how sound his advice there is, but as far as "dating" (and he always focuses on stricly dating, and says that some of his examples are not for LTR) he is not bad at all, mainly basic stuff, but important.

Mystery, the only thing I've read is his first book, which was decent. And I've read "the GAME" which has a lot of Mystery stuff in it too obviously.

I actually think David D covers more of the improtant info than mystery, while mystery does have some good tactics on how to go step by step in a situation to close the deal. David D covers more about the "inner game".
 

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by the way DI ANGELO also wrote a e book on the subject of picking up men for women under the name of CARTER i believe so don t tell me the guy is not into it for the money
 

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That might be, no clue, I didn't read any books on picking up guys, so not sure lol.

But I dont' care what HE is in it for, if you can learn somethign from any of them, that's what I care about. And from what I understand he's like a multi-millionaire now, so he must have been doing somethign right lol.

All of us strive to have money, if you don't, you should. It's one of the basic needs for our survival today, so there is nothing wrong being motivated by it. Just saying.
 

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I gotta say that the guys from RSD seem the most legit. They post video's of them actually pulling off insane ****, and their philosophy makes the most sense to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think you can learn enough at a place like this & reading the DJ bible. Best thing about it is that it's free too!
 
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