Southern California-based entertainment consultant, earning $80/hour or low six-figure income. I enjoy what I do, what I help other people achieve, and the money's not a bad bonus as well. I'm trying to transition to being purely paid monthly retainers so I can relax my schedule.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Who actually enjoys their job??
- Thread starter just so suave
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
Love being a personal trainer. I'll always stay in shape (i'm too disciplined to let myself go anyway), and there's no better feeling than watching a cute slightly overweight girl transform into a slim hot girl over the course of 5-6 months, or any overweight person for that matter. I'm honoured to know I have that kind of effect on peoples appearance & their lives, and i'm humbled by it.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
What criteria do you need to become a trainer? At my gym they add trainers like every day and they cant all be fitness experts.
I'm indifferent to my job. It gives me money and time to do music, which is my true love. I'm starting to teach myself programming, web design, and networking so I can hopefully make money if music goes to sh!te!
I'm indifferent to my job. It gives me money and time to do music, which is my true love. I'm starting to teach myself programming, web design, and networking so I can hopefully make money if music goes to sh!te!
Ken785
Master Don Juan
really? not to be mean but, they couldnt pay me enough to make out with your "girl" friend comic...comic_relief said:I LOVE MY JOB!!! (never thought that I would say that)
I'm the college mascot and I get to d!ck around with people for fun.
Plus, I can be an idiot and get paid for it. Yesterday, I was getting paid to make out with my girlfriend. I love my job.
comic_relief
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
Down here (Australia), you can do a course in like half a day and they'll give you a certificate of qualification. I'm against this however, I think you would need to do a course that runs for a minimum of 3 months (full time) or 6 months (part time) to really learn the information needed. I was already visiting bodybuilding forums before I did the course anyway, so that gave me a bit of a head start. I knew all the practical stuff already, it was just the theory behind it that I wasn't aware of. With anything in life, if you can learn more about a subject, do it.WhitePimp said:What criteria do you need to become a trainer? At my gym they add trainers like every day and they cant all be fitness experts.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Precursor
Don Juan
damn lol. i'm a full time high school student who works part time at a local pharmacy.
my boss is ultra cheap and conservative, pays me minimum wage, and expects too much from me. i also got a check deduction cause i didn't catch a shoplifter. i hate my job.
my boss is ultra cheap and conservative, pays me minimum wage, and expects too much from me. i also got a check deduction cause i didn't catch a shoplifter. i hate my job.
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
I'm with alvatore, my job is awesome (personal trainer) for all the reasons he mentioned.
plus I'm an illustrator, so I spend my time getting paid alot of money for drawing and painting.
to be honest I don't even feel like I work, i just get paid to do things that i love doing and probably would be doing anyways even if there was no money involved.
plus I'm an illustrator, so I spend my time getting paid alot of money for drawing and painting.
to be honest I don't even feel like I work, i just get paid to do things that i love doing and probably would be doing anyways even if there was no money involved.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
ughh..what do you do?Mr.Sexy said:I love what I do. I won't lie, the best part of my job is knowing that I can make or break others. The feeling of power that you get when you know others are trying to please you is better than great sex.
Complain to your boss because a) you're part-time and b) security isn't in your job description.Precursor said:i also got a check deduction cause i didn't catch a shoplifter.
Of course, if security is in your job description, haha.
Drum&Bass said:I'm withalvatore, my job is awesome (personal trainer) for all the reasons he mentioned.
plus I'm an illustrator, so I spend my time getting paid alot of money for drawing and painting.
Tip: Get more contracts by offering to create before-and-after illustrations of your personal-training clients. Or just illustrate your new personal-training clients in the best of light at no cost to them and watch the word of mouth spread like California wildfires.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.