sylvester the cat
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
White Knight or Alpha male?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sylvester the cat
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My question would be what is she doing in another guys car in the first place?
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Now that's how you take care of business. Total Alpha.
Shouldn't even be a question.
Shouldn't even be a question.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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The film is depicting a different age to the one we live in now.Last of the Alphas said:
Because of our(men's) treatment of women back then it led successive generations empowering women to the point where we've create a system that's detrimental to men as a whole.
Also this isn't some street walker he's driving home, it's his girl. Future wife and mother of his children.
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The 70's? Women still exhibiting genuine feminine grace and femininity. The majority still believed in taking care of their family and believed they were the glue that binds the family unit together, traditional pursuits more suited to women were still encouraged, feral hypergamy kept in check by society at large?
I'd say leaning more toward alpha.
Now ? In a time of obesity,atomized yougogurrrls, fetus hoovering, tattoos, profanity, SSRI addiction, don't need no man, bar hopping, duck face, carousel riding cubicle drones?
I'd say leaning more toward WK.
I believe they call this phenomenon "Lets you and him fight"
I'd say leaning more toward alpha.
Now ? In a time of obesity,atomized yougogurrrls, fetus hoovering, tattoos, profanity, SSRI addiction, don't need no man, bar hopping, duck face, carousel riding cubicle drones?
I'd say leaning more toward WK.
I believe they call this phenomenon "Lets you and him fight"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree with some here, I would first confirm the exact truth of what happened and if it really does justify to use my strength towards defending a woman.. Before it would be possibly true what she said,, nowadays,, who knows if she was trying to manipulate the whole situation..
AttackFormation
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If you've seen the movie, you know the girl wasn't lying.