"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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White Hair

Capitol39

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I'm only 22. Some mornings when I wake up, I notice that I have one or two new white hairs on my head. I usually just pulled them out, but lately it's been *every* morning. I just keep pulling them out.

I'm not stressed out. My diet is improving. My health is on the upswing. I don't know anyone in my family who started getting white hair at such a young age.

Does anyone here know why this is happening? :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Demon

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White hair is cool. Wait until all of your hair is white. People will think you dyed it. White is especially cooler if it's silver.
 

enkai

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i heard that lack of chormium in your diet, i got white hair all over, its genetic for me...my uncle went grey all the way when he was 19
 

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It's known that having white hair means you think alot.
It's good, just stop thinking and start moving more (yes, I mean excercise).
 

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Originally posted by KiLLer
It's known that having white hair means you think alot.
It's good, just stop thinking and start moving more (yes, I mean excercise).
Interesting...

Is there a correlation between inactivity and white hair?

My roomate is 20 and his hair is getting really white. He studies all day and has a 94% GPA, but he never gets any exercise. Could this be the cause???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KiLLer

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Interesting...

Is there a correlation between inactivity and white hair?

My roomate is 20 and his hair is getting really white. He studies all day and has a 94% GPA, but he never gets any exercise. Could this be the cause???
Yes, most likely. Don't forget genetic also plays a role.

I doubt inactivity cause white hair but I do know that if you're not moving alot, you're usually studying or working on a table. (or playing game)
 
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