I am a white guy but I am really into black women (although I have never dated any) It just seems really difficult to do because of the barriers that are usually there. How do you approach black chicks if you are a white guy? It seems like the overwhelming majority of them are into black guys, unless they just don't get approached by white guys much.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
White Guys and Black Chicks
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
Here I am, a black dude giving advice to a white guy in picking up black chics. What's the world coming too haha
Anyway I'll just give examples of white dudes I was friends with that picked up on black women on the regular. I guess a good way to explain it is that they hung out with black folks on a regular basis so they were part of that whole world. You don't have to act like eminem or anything of that sort, if you do you get laughed at, but you have to kind of have a sense of what's going on, if that makes any sense. Those I knew pretty much had that going for them. Basically they were very ****y, alpha types that could hang when it came to the dozens, sh!t talking, stuff like that. Black women are much harsher when it comes to sh!t tests, so you have to have thick skin and just brush those off. Plus you gotta be agressive and persistent.
Also, you can't be the stereotypical goofy whide dude, i e Conan O'Brien, for example. Black women hate goofy guys of any race. Steve Urkel Carlton Banks types don't get any play either, and that's talking from personal experience. Basically, if your game is good and you're not goofy and you're in tune with the culture, you should do fine.
Anyway I'll just give examples of white dudes I was friends with that picked up on black women on the regular. I guess a good way to explain it is that they hung out with black folks on a regular basis so they were part of that whole world. You don't have to act like eminem or anything of that sort, if you do you get laughed at, but you have to kind of have a sense of what's going on, if that makes any sense. Those I knew pretty much had that going for them. Basically they were very ****y, alpha types that could hang when it came to the dozens, sh!t talking, stuff like that. Black women are much harsher when it comes to sh!t tests, so you have to have thick skin and just brush those off. Plus you gotta be agressive and persistent.
Also, you can't be the stereotypical goofy whide dude, i e Conan O'Brien, for example. Black women hate goofy guys of any race. Steve Urkel Carlton Banks types don't get any play either, and that's talking from personal experience. Basically, if your game is good and you're not goofy and you're in tune with the culture, you should do fine.
lol. i dont know why, but i am chinese, and black women always hit on me lol. i aint good lookin neither... i just get hit on a lot of black women, but i aint really into them, so i just always sleep on them, and dont let them become more than just friends with me... i aint racist, and i will be friends with anyone, but i have never been attracted to a black lady for some reason. but what i noticed is this, if you want to pick up a black girl, u gotta act casual, and they tend to be a little louder than other girls, so u gotta play along with that... u gotta play it cool, and pretend u dont want sex lol. i guess that is why i am pretty good with those types, because i dont get all quiet and stuff. i treat them like they guys...hahaha....
be a gentleman, but treat them like one of your boys, and stuff like that. good luck boy- advice from a ch!nk hahaha
be a gentleman, but treat them like one of your boys, and stuff like that. good luck boy- advice from a ch!nk hahaha
Player_Supreme
Banned
Like the brotha said don't be no Erkle type. Just treat em like you would any other woman. don't put em on a pedistal and bow down to their mighty blackness.
Look for the type of sista's who only has white friends. She can be full black or half/and half. Listen to how they speak. If they sound like a white chick then your in luck.
These types are looking for white dudes and normally wouldn't even date their own race. They have fallen victim to the sterotyping of their own men. In their embarrasment over being black they try hard to be something that they ain't which is white.
This type is safe for you to date. A real sista will eat you alive and spit your lilly white arse back out.
Look for the type of sista's who only has white friends. She can be full black or half/and half. Listen to how they speak. If they sound like a white chick then your in luck.
These types are looking for white dudes and normally wouldn't even date their own race. They have fallen victim to the sterotyping of their own men. In their embarrasment over being black they try hard to be something that they ain't which is white.
This type is safe for you to date. A real sista will eat you alive and spit your lilly white arse back out.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrbrooklyn
Don Juan
LOL "real sista will spit you alive"
I was in club "rain" in vegas a few weeks ago. Some how me and my boys got into the VIP section. Throughout the night I was doing my thing chatting up all the white hoes. Well while the white girl I eventually went home with was in the bathroom, I decided to holla at these sistas that were standing around by themselves. I know they had seen me talkng to this white chick and I guess that pissed them off when I tried to talk to them. I didn't even try to spit any game on them, but they sure was ready to sh$T on me. These girls were from Crenshaw (los angeles). I told them that I lived in LA, but I am from NY. I got no respect. They proceeded to play out brooklyn. At this point the girl who I was chillin with came back and I just left the sistas.
The moral of this story is, when you are around real black women your game has to be tight. If you are floundering around being shy ant stuff or wait a while to try an talk to them they will play you out. If I was you I would stick to the "white washed black girls". You can find them at any hipster or super trendy bars in your hood. They are usually rolling with a few of their white girl friends.
I was in club "rain" in vegas a few weeks ago. Some how me and my boys got into the VIP section. Throughout the night I was doing my thing chatting up all the white hoes. Well while the white girl I eventually went home with was in the bathroom, I decided to holla at these sistas that were standing around by themselves. I know they had seen me talkng to this white chick and I guess that pissed them off when I tried to talk to them. I didn't even try to spit any game on them, but they sure was ready to sh$T on me. These girls were from Crenshaw (los angeles). I told them that I lived in LA, but I am from NY. I got no respect. They proceeded to play out brooklyn. At this point the girl who I was chillin with came back and I just left the sistas.
The moral of this story is, when you are around real black women your game has to be tight. If you are floundering around being shy ant stuff or wait a while to try an talk to them they will play you out. If I was you I would stick to the "white washed black girls". You can find them at any hipster or super trendy bars in your hood. They are usually rolling with a few of their white girl friends.