"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whipping myself back into shape - getting thin.

nroug7

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So I'm currently looking on thinning down on fat before I even think of bulking up, will cardio exercises be a great way to start on this, and if so, what is the most efficient at burning the fat away?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Krueg

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Training for strength isnt necessarily going to help you loose fat. I wouldnt recommend a bodybuilding program for strength training now would I?

So, Yes, do cardio, eat cleaner/healthier foods, eat smaller portions or take the fork out of your mouth! Research some weight loss programs as well..

Good Luck!
 

DanZy

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Lifting heavy burns more calories than cardio. But I don't advocate lifting for weight loss, I advocate lifting whilst cutting to preserve strength and muscle mass. Hence why I told him to lift
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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