"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am going to college in August and am very much looking forward to it. I am going to a major university that is known for having beautiful women, therefore I am very excited. Since I am posting in the "Mature Man" forum, I am hoping for advice from DJ's who have been there and done significant reflection on there times and growth in college. Typically through HS I have have basically not had girls be apart of my life, but as of recently I have been trying to change that. I think my best opportunity is ahead of me while going to a college where I know no one and can be the me who I want to be. Well I don't know if it is really that easy, to up and change as soon as soon as I step on that plane heading for college in August, so I am trying to go as much ground work for then now. I have access to the DJ Bible and Most of David Deangelo's stuff and I have been spending much time improving myself and building my confidence and owe much to this site for my gains. Basically what I am asking to all you older guys is What should I do that worked for you in college that made your sex life or just life in general better, also what do you wish you would have done in college that I should take advantage of. Any thoughts, reflections, or advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My first piece of advice would be that, as a freshman, don't expect people to be socially warm with you based on tactics and attitude. In other words, if you notice people being a little cold, it's not because you're doing anything wrong. Just don't expect the social welcome wagon full of chicks and invites to parties to knock on your door.

Be pro-active and as social as you can with other freshmen, especially in your dorm. Don't aim for women straight away. Just get a social circle going. You'll make friends with upper classmen (& women) soon enough.

Leave your dorm room door open if you're hanging out there. Let people see you're there. Give people the opportunity to peek in and say hi.
 
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Word, make freinds with those that live in your dorm. Also, hit up high traffic areas around your campus, such as the cafeteria during lunchtime. When I was in school, I made a lot of friends that way just by sitting somewhere and waiting for someone to sit down next to me. It's an easy way to bump into women.
 
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